Feb 21 2009, 09:20 AM
QUOTE(LiewFreddy @ Feb 19 2009, 04:28 PM)
i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...
When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????
So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down
i think u need professional help and support. Many years together with her, I think you might not have contact with many of your old friends. But find your good and old friends now. Its not too late.When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????
So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down
Also, don't compare with others la...So what if others get married alr, I'm also at that age, but I not worried. I only wanna married at 30+, not 20+. You're a guy so i dont think its too big problem. The ocean got so many better fish. But you keep looking at your one old fish which swim away already. Many other pple here will also tell you this girl not worth it.
What for you wanna marry a girl who just wants your money? Don't you feel like being used? When u look back next time u will actually be really happy and grateful you guys broke up. You will want a girl who is crazy for you. Who aactually loves you for who you are.
Cheers
QUOTE(plplpl @ Feb 21 2009, 08:37 AM)
u have to understand women also need security...they have to choose their life partner properly....who wants to marry a poor guy....its not just about love sometimes...
that girl is just not suitable for you.....nobody is right or wrong here...
i don't think he is poor. He earns 2k plus per month. If he spends his money wisely, one day he will be rich. Its just this girl too demanding. She see the guy for his riches, not for who he is. But of course this is one side of the story. Bottom line is i don't think he is poor. He can give basic security and necessities but maybe she wants luxuries, since he mentioned travelling, etc etc.that girl is just not suitable for you.....nobody is right or wrong here...
This post has been edited by Jerm_vii: Feb 21 2009, 09:22 AM
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