Feb 22 2009, 03:25 AM
QUOTE(LiewFreddy @ Feb 19 2009, 04:28 PM)
i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...
When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????
So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down
When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????
So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down
Added on February 22, 2009, 3:36 amDo you want this to happen or not - if one day the guy who is the one who changes and wanted to leave the girl becoz she is getting older/uglier ?
Girls can be selfish, but guys can be selfish too..What we are hoping now is to prevent this to happen, and not to blame who is right and who is wrong. When you are already committed to a relationship, you should stand by the decision that you have made. No matter it's how good or how bad, don't regret, unless both parties have agreed to terminate the relationship for everyone's benefit.
Girls can be smart, guys can be smart too, don't treat a relationship as a game that you can choose to quit if you think that you can have a better game out there, one day the same thing will happen to you too, and guys have nothing to loss.
My point is not trying to say guys have better advantage, I really very hope noone gets hurt in the end of a relationship..
QUOTE(joeycheong23 @ Feb 22 2009, 12:17 AM)
u have to think the girl's side as well.
if u were her,
and u found someone better, i guess u would have done the same thing as well.
love is never fair.
its either one of them getting hurt in the end.
so, if i were u, i'll firstly focus on my job and prove to her and of course everyone that u're moving on,
to a better life and income
good luck ts~
This post has been edited by Hakkinen: Feb 22 2009, 03:37 AMif u were her,
and u found someone better, i guess u would have done the same thing as well.
love is never fair.
its either one of them getting hurt in the end.
so, if i were u, i'll firstly focus on my job and prove to her and of course everyone that u're moving on,
to a better life and income
good luck ts~
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