i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...

When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these  two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????

So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down

not so money minded??  no such thing, bro.. there is just no such thing..

But to be fair, girls tend to be like that = )

But I dont disagree, I was once content with my honda city, but I am moving up in the world and I want nice things to show my status = )

Girls thrive for the same thing, and yes, not all want prada, gucci and etc, but still, they want to be able to be comfortable = )

I am person, who would like my wife to stay home when I get my first child. Her working, is not even open for discussion = )

Thus, I'm working hard to provide for that future .. and I understand girls like to have nice things, even if they dont ask for it ..

My ex didnt ask for presents or wtv. she didnt demand i buy her a necklace from swarovski or wtv.

But i did it anywayz, cause I wanted to show her what she meant to me.

We broke up eventually because of long distance, but thats not the point being discussed here = ) .

A girl feels secure when a guy can provide for her, be it, last time i was using my parents money. But im out on my own, and makin my way in the world and I understand how my dad felt when he and my mom first had me = ) .

He wanted my mom to be a house wife so that she can nurture me and my brother who came later on.

He on the other hand, did his job as a husband and a father and provided for us .

Isnt that what every woman wants? The security to build a family without the stress of meeting ends meet ?

You dont have to be filthy rich to be able to give that kind of security. Not every girl, needs to have a bmw and a prada bag = ).

A proton or a honda would do fine.

If every girl conformed to the I want ferrari mentaility, 95% of the world population will be single and crying = )

omnimech, sad to say, lots of losers (they claim that they are nice guys) in CC here don't understand the simple theory as you mentioned.

They simply just understand:
Girls loves money = Girls are materialistic = Girls are b**ch

The actual formula:
Girls want security = Girls want finacial capable Bfs/Husbands

did you ask omnimech for his mobile? i think he's still single 

walao eh..

just went for a short meeting and now i see my reputation been ruined....