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Chat Gf left me, she say i am poor, 4 years relationship,fail future wedding
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BouncyBall
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Feb 21 2009, 12:58 PM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « QUOTE(LiewFreddy @ Feb 19 2009, 04:28 PM) i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years... When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when theseĀ two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec????? So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down you should be happy that after so many years, you got to see her real side in the end and not marrying the wrong person and regreting your whole life... if its money she wants, then she will regret her whole life, cuz rich man tends to find woman outside, 8 out of 10 men do that, she will suffer, looking at all the material stuff she have from LV to mercedes to diamonds but there is no love... imagine when she is consiving a baby and her husband outside is having an affair and they lady would sit beside her and tell her stories of what she and her husband did... I am talking about true experience people i know went through... find a girl that really likes you and not what you have and you will find happiness... and so what if you are not married?? enjoy all your single life as you can, i know most of your friends aredy married and so on, you can find friends that are younger than you and go have fun like the old days... This post has been edited by BouncyBall: Feb 21 2009, 12:59 PM
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