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This post has been edited by shadowglow: May 27 2019, 12:08 PM

Gender: Male

Location: KL

Born in the year: 1988

Weight: 70-75 i guess

Height:169/170

Occupation: Fraud Business Analyst in a MNC

Hobbies and interests
i:Music, ( at my past time, i'll mix music at home with software tools, explored studio music tools, played piano before but finger injury has stopped me from playing those back. Enjoy a wide range of music genre from the extreme soft and soul and all the way to the heavy ones but for the most part i enjoy instrumental music. Spend a lil bit and professional music headsets cause u can really enjoy the differences ). Enjoy's swimming, i guess this and playing pool can be a soothing sports to relax my mind. ( Office had a pool table and use to stay back at office and play for few sets , helps with the stress. ) Playing Darts is the next closest game i like to. Just focus, empty your mind and aim.
Occasional Gamer ( enjoy simulation games more, ventured into this at a early age since 1997 from Jet fighting F22 games to Rally games, have a racing wheel for that )
Tone down on badminton cause less kaki these days.Joined Viper challenges and might do it again.
Enjoy travelling but wish i always got the money to do it every alternate weekends!
Be Rich at Heart and not money is the motto.
Into Anime since 1996 ( yea those who had AXN since Mega TV subscription knows this, 3X 3 Eyes was the early ones i was expose ( later on i found that the the suitable age for that is 18+PG/PA/SX Genre due to is mature content) Rurouni Kenshi/Samurai X is still my favorite anime ( with it's good story, awesome intrumental music by Noriyuki Asakura , i still keep that music collection and have all element of comedy,action,love conspiracy
Movies; Love Comedy movies as i like to laugh too~!. This actor can burst my tummy from this movie, Naked Gun ( 3 movies from the 80's ) also those Cantonese movies from the 80's ( e.g. the ones with stephen chow! )



Other description : I'll be direct: I am a divorcee after a decade + of relationship from a high school sweetheart and planed for our marriage from the initial stage.
What went wrong?. She messed up ( or F@rked up) literally big time. She got pregnant with a child from somebody else and i didn't knew it initially. everyone always wondered what lead to this, i can tell you one thing, logic didn't apply to this question and answer. I ask her just one question, except having a big house, big car and travel every other month, what i didn't do for you( including your family )?. I have heard all kinds of words all these while., wanna grow old together, have our burial ground next to each other when we die but all those words were nothing but just words.

Never ever that was answered. This was a interracial relationship/marriage. It was sad that this happen, the guy was way his senior and rank below and reported to her, was from Ethnic East of malaysia ( sorry i do not want to name the specific to be prejudice or bias to that race ).
Impact was really bad and damaging, mentally, plus it just happen after you move to a new department. It also affected my family cause they were so loving to her too and giving her more attention.
Somehow the good thing was, i was trying to pursue psychology courses to take up later on, when this happen, it was sort of i was giving treatment to my own self ( ironic ). Strangely enough, nor did i lose my temper when this confrontation happen nor did i even lift a single finger back at her. It has certainly open my mind to how i view things,situation in life and how to deal with it. I have realise and moved on. Although she herself admitted there was love all the way but a single stupid mistake has cost this and there is no way of turning back. There was instances where somethings didn't add up, my own instinct sense something amiss but because of how long we were together and the bond and trust were there, i didn't pursue that concern or raise it. There wasn't any major fights all the way until to that year all of this was happening. It has been 2 years since that disaster, papers are finalize and i am here to see if there is anyone who might be in a similar situation or been in the bitter and sweet in life and know how to appreciate life and to make it more meaningful.Everyone wants to improve their life from their current state to a improve one am i not? The ones to choose to fall in that dark pit hole, playing with fire in relationship ( knowing morally it's wrong ) is the ones will suffer forever and never be satisfied and happy.

Requirements / preferences: Right now? It doesn't matter, ( maybe so long you dont have any critical health issues that might take us apart ). If you are also a divocee, we can have a long talk with Milo Ice ( yeah my fav drink ). Even if you have kids, I can love your child but i can't never love that child from my previous EX , ( there is no specific words to explain ) but a human mind has a very specific unique trust in each individual, if that is broken, it can never be the same no matter how much words was put to it, the action determine more.I dont mind older women too.

In case you are wondering, in the divorce petition, she mention to her lawyer that there is no child involve in this marriage, hence there is no alimony money involve to her. We were almost buying property together, thank god that didn't happen else i will scratch my hair till it falls more and more . The only thing help me with this is that i have all the Black and White for all this and evidence of that affair.


Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional):you can Pm me and we'll exchange there

Religion/Race: I put this the bottom section.cause i want to avoid any bias in anyone mind subconsciously
I am a coconut. Still wondering? if a banana is a chinese who can't speak chinese, then a a coconut is an indian who can't speak his native language ( brown on the outside, White in the inside!! ). The environment i grow up has less of my race so i mix with the others a lot.
For Religion? I view it differently. I have my own view. Ones does not have to be piety to be good and have a good heart. At times i feel religion is meant for the ignorant and do not know how to live a Life. But despite having a "manual "to guide one being how to live, people still commit crime, yet knowing what they do is wrong. Some thinks that they are better than the others. what i came to think but not a conclusion yet? It's all man made up rules in the ancient time to give them their own desire benefit and to expand. Those "law" or guideline can no longer be actually applicable at these modern age and time. Despite all of this, to your surprise i actually believe in other souls, being, and God after experiencing some event that you can't explain.

Ok i know i really wrote a lot, please forgive me Admin , i did read the first post but i thought i just wanna describe about me

Updated: Forgot to add this, I am a, non smoker ( but i can still hang out with them and being a 2nd hand smoker ), non drinker ( weird, i know , i get this a lot ), not a kaki clubber, unless it's like a company gathering/event there or ppl really really REALLY insist the my company. Cause i always end up driving them back!

This post has been edited by shadowglow: May 25 2017, 08:38 PM

gonna be a 2nd report after years.

Gender: Male

Location: KL

Born in the year: 1988

Weight: 70-75 i guess

Height:169/170

Occupation: Got laid off under VSS (department shut down, despite working crazily during MCO to save millions for them)

Hobbies and interests
i:Music, ( at my past time, I'll mix music at home with software tools, explored studio music tools, played piano before but finger injury has stopped me from playing those back. Enjoy a wide range of music genre from the extreme soft and soul and all the way to the heavy ones but for the most part i enjoy instrumental music. Spend a lil bit and professional music headsets cause u can really enjoy the differences ). Enjoys swimming, i guess this and playing pool can be a soothing sports to relax my mind. ( Office had a pool table and use to stay back at office and play for few sets , helps with the stress. ) Playing Darts is the next closest game i like to. Just focus, empty your mind and aim.
2021- To be get my sleep routine back to Asia timezone and to be fit back !

Occasional Gamer on PC: 2021- well RO M.S.P( MY, SG,PH) is still active, overcook 2 series, BomberGround is fun too!
Tone down on badminton cause less kaki these days.
Enjoy travelling but wish i always got the money to do it every alternate weekends!
Be Rich at Heart and not money is the motto.

Into Anime since 1996 ( yea those who had AXN since Mega TV subscription knows this, 3X 3 Eyes was the early ones i was expose ( later on i found that the the suitable age for that is 18+PG/PA/SX Genre due to is mature content) Rurouni Kenshi/Samurai X is still my favorite anime ( with it's good story, awesome instrumental music by Noriyuki Asakura , i still keep that music collection and have all element of comedy,action,love conspiracy smile.gif

Movies; Love Comedy movies as i like to laugh too~!. This actor can burst my tummy from this movie, Naked Gun ( 3 movies from the 80's ) also those Cantonese movies from the 80's ( e.g. the ones with stephen chow! rclxms.gif ).

2021- Into various series in Netflix, even vpn to other region to watch some old movies in the 80's 90's, or even the gossips with the interview oprah has with Megan and harry



Other description : I'll be direct: I am a divorcee after a decade + of relationship from a high school sweetheart and planed for our marriage from the initial stage.
What went wrong?. She messed up literally big time. She got pregnant with a child from somebody else and i didn't knew it initially. everyone always wondered what lead to this, i can tell you one thing, logic didn't apply to this question and answer. I ask her just one question, except having a big house, big car and travel every other month, what i didn't do for you( including your family )?. I have heard all kinds of words all these while., wanna grow old together, have our burial ground next to each other when we die but all those words were nothing but just words.

Never ever that was answered. This was a interracial relationship/marriage. It was sad that this happen, the guy was way his senior and rank below and reported to her, was from Ethnic East of malaysia ( sorry i do not want to name the specific to be prejudice or bias to that race ).
Impact was really bad and damaging, mentally, plus it just happen after you move to a new department. It also affected my family cause they were so loving to her too and giving her more attention.
Somehow the good thing was, i was trying to pursue psychology courses to take up later on, when this happen, it was sort of i was giving treatment to my own self ( ironic ). Strangely enough, nor did i lose my temper when this confrontation happen nor did i even lift a single finger back at her. It has certainly open my mind to how i view things,situation in life and how to deal with it. I have realise and moved on. Although she herself admitted there was love all the way but a single stupid mistake has cost this and there is no way of turning back. There was instances where somethings didn't add up, my own instinct sense something amiss but because of how long we were together and the bond and trust were there, i didn't pursue that concern or raise it. There wasn't any major fights all the way until to that year all of this was happening. It has been 2 years since that disaster, papers are finalize and i am here to see if there is anyone who might be in a similar situation or been in the bitter and sweet in life and know how to appreciate life and to make it more meaningful.Everyone wants to improve their life from their current state to a improve one am i not? The ones to choose to fall in that dark pit hole, playing with fire in relationship ( knowing morally it's wrong ) is the ones will suffer forever and never be satisfied and happy.

Requirements / preferences: Right now? It doesn't matter, ( maybe so long you dont have any critical health issues that might take us apart ). If you are also a divocee, we can have a long talk with Milo Ice ( yeah my fav drink ). Even if you have kids, I can love your child but i can't never love that child from my previous EX , ( there is no specific words to explain ) but a human mind has a very specific unique trust in each individual, if that is broken, it can never be the same no matter how much words was put to it, the action determine more.I don't mind older women too.

Time has healed, indeed, I'm the so call bij (b*tch) friend among friends/ colleague or ex-colleagues, i guess don't take any hard feeling on jokes/banter even if it's a harsh or sarcastic one.

In case you are wondering, in the divorce petition, she mention to her lawyer that there is no child involve in this marriage, hence there is no alimony money involve to her. We were almost buying property together, thank god that didn't happen else i will scratch my hair till it falls more and more . The only thing help me with this is that i have all the Black and White for all this and evidence of that affair.


Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional):you can Pm me and we'll exchange there

Religion/Race: I put this the bottom section cause i want to avoid any bias in anyone mind subconsciously
I am a coconut. Still wondering? if a banana is a chinese who can't speak chinese, then a a coconut is an indian who can't speak his native language ( brown on the outside, White in the inside!! ). The environment i grow up has less of my race so i mix with the others a lot.
For Religion? I view it differently. I have my own view. Ones does not have to be piety to be good and have a good heart. At times i feel religion is meant for the ignorant and do not know how to live a Life. But despite having a "manual "to guide one being how to live, people still commit crime, yet knowing what they do is wrong. Some thinks that they are better than the others. what i came to think but not a conclusion yet? It's all man made up rules in the ancient time to give them their own desire benefit and to expand. Those "law" or guideline can no longer be actually applicable at these modern age and time. Despite all of this, to your surprise i actually believe in other souls, being, and God after experiencing some event that you can't explain.

Ok i know i really wrote a lot, please forgive me Admin cry.gif , i did read the first post but i thought i just wanna describe about me

Updated: Forgot to add this, I am a, non smoker ( but i can still hang out with them and being a 2nd hand smoker ), non drinker ( weird, i know , i get this a lot ), not a kaki clubber, unless it's like a company gathering/event there or ppl really really REALLY insist the my company. Cause i always end up driving them back! shakehead.gif