Gender: Male/ Jantan as they say in my old folk's hometown

Location: Australia. But still have strong ties to the place I grew up. PJ.

Born in the year: 1983

Weight: 75kg (was 80.. targeting @70)

Height: 167cm

Religion/Race: born Buddhist (but loves my steak!!)/Chinese

Occupation: Analyst

Hobbies and interests: Travelling, pointhacking for premium airline seats, Leatherworking, Planning for my next bespoke suit/ bag/ shoe/ fountain pen order, investing (difficult given my competing interests.. :/)

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality):

I spent most of my years growing up in good old PJ... but moved to Melbourne due to furthering my studies and being offered a job there which made staying on an obvious choice after having exprienced a big4 internship where I was being paid an absolute pittance and treated even worse because the seniors around me hated the fact that I was studying aboard, and I am used to asking a lot of questions especially when i need to clarify something. They made life hell for me by focusing on a very minor condition of sleep apnoea that I had. None of this is an issue where I am now. I am not in a leadership position, but am well known for my technical competence and ability to smell and call out people's BS... politely of course 😉.

Personality wise, I am the textbook definition of an INTP.. barring the exception that I can actually dress very well... infact at my most casual you will see me in a polo shirt, linen or cotton shorts and loafers or leather trainers. The only time you will see me in a tshirt is when I am probably going to do something really messy...like painting stuff..

I am quite detail oriented as well... so much so it influences my decisions in my purchasing... e.g. I always buy 100% wool, cotton or linen material especially for summer (uniqlo and Muji are great for these things). Most of my accessories usually have a techincal aspect to them rather than the brand.. I would order things bespoke when the situation allows. You will never see me buying from big luxury fashion houses as I place a high value on one's individuality hence my "go bespoke or at least Made to Order" preference. I prefer giving my hard earned cash to an artisan who puts pride in their work.

At work and among my circle of friends, I am known for my dark and cynical humour, so much so, I have given the word "sucession management" a second meaning at my workplace 😉😎. I am also known for my calm and collected temperament even when under stress. My friends have also described me a person filled with curiousity. And as the saying with cats goes.... they are afraid it will land me in hot water one day... actually it did when I was much younger, when my parents were worried sick that I tried to question certain narratives especially in "Sejarah"... I have since matured to be able to pick my battles.. but occasionally, you will see me struggle...🤣. I am also rather philosophical and logical... hence my Myer-Briggs INTP result. (Take it with a grain of salt though...)

Oh also, I dont really have a face problem... in fact am quite proud of my "not sepet" eyes which I hope to pass down to my offspring.😉

Requirements / preferences: Looking for a serious relationship. My last one did leave me feeling quite downcast for a long time... but now am ready and have been looking but all the attention I have been getting here are from PRC ladies who have expressed a greater interest in my pay packet, citizenship status and small property portfolio. (Many can't seem to take a joke about their country though... triggered quite easily). 🤣 Many also seem to have a poor attitude towards their social inferiors like cleaning staff or service attendants. I have to admit that I am proud of my achievements far and I will defend it. But one behaviour I will never tolerate is when somebody of a higher social standing disrespects those below them working hard to feed themselves. I will call out the poor behaviour and yes, the loss of face is well deserved from my point of view...
Last but not least I don't mind plain janes but I have to admit, that being significantly overweight (and by that i mean obese... not just a few extra pounds...)is rather unattractive... If you live in the west, this literally eliminates half of the dating pool of women unfortunately...🤷‍♂️

Also, this may start as a LDR... but rest assured I am committed to finding someone who I can get along with.

Thanks ladies and wishing everyone here (guys, gals and those of LGBTQI orientation), the best.

This post has been edited by 3ff3z8e: Dec 22 2019, 07:48 AM