QUOTE(m4djack @ Feb 12 2009, 01:17 AM)
agree that. well, at least mine one failed with a happy ending

because it's all about willingness~
QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Feb 12 2009, 01:18 AM)
Love life is never meant to be straight forward,IMO.
I have seen with my very own eyes that LDR works but both side must give 101% effort in it.It's something that i feel that im not confident enough to pull it off.
Im very straight forward.Not creative,not romantic.LDR just wont work for me as im just boring.
I just cant let go.

don't say it's 101 % effort, it's more like 101% trust in it~
cause from what i see... LDR, those people they act like not really in a relationship, more like "it's complicated" situation...so yeap, you know what's about it~ =) if it's your first love, for sure that you will care a lot... but try not to act like... "i've to report to my gf every single mins..."
you are straight forward, not creative= straight to the point, which is good, not romantic, no need to waste money... some girls they just don't like romantic guy...
you can't let it go, but still struggling with it? then just go for it~ test her a bit, see if she likes you? if she does, go for it, if she acts like normal fren, then perhaps no?