QUOTE(air @ Feb 12 2009, 10:38 AM)
Quite simple.
For guys: if you don want other people joke you with a shotgun marriage, then DON'T DO IT. Please do not assume you wont that "lucky" to hit the jackpot. It is not that easy to hit, but once you hit, you are FINISHED.
For girls:
If you want to observe a relationship for future marriage consideration, then DON'T DO IT. Although it cant guarantee your future marriage safe, but it can show how far he can respect you. This kind of approach can "filter" off a lot of buaya which can make you miserable mentally after your marriage.
Noted your comments to girls.For guys: if you don want other people joke you with a shotgun marriage, then DON'T DO IT. Please do not assume you wont that "lucky" to hit the jackpot. It is not that easy to hit, but once you hit, you are FINISHED.
For girls:
If you want to observe a relationship for future marriage consideration, then DON'T DO IT. Although it cant guarantee your future marriage safe, but it can show how far he can respect you. This kind of approach can "filter" off a lot of buaya which can make you miserable mentally after your marriage.
I ever acquainted a guy in a bar during my farewell party. There was a man SMS me the next day telling me that he was the man who had been noticing me the whole night yesterday. He told me he likes my smile and my appearance but he didn't want to tell me where he got my number, I asked around my friends who attended the farewell party and none of then gave my number to other ppl.
This man SMS me consistently, every day. Honestly his persistence in making an effort to get my number did really impress me. I didn't mind to have him as my bf and after months of SMS-ing, i may accept him. However, there was one day, he asked me a question, which I think he had been waiting too long to ask: do you agree on one night stand?
I denied him, made a clear line to him that I DO NOT ACCEPT ONS.
He left. At the end.
I'm glad that I know he is not genuinely loving me and he is not the one for me.

Mar 21 2009, 09:23 AM

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