we can be friend, but facebook....perhaps later?

me aso wan facebook xD pm me, i wan more friends xD

sigh.........

seems like no one is going to take an effort to find out my facebook.

It's belongs to someone who is willing and mean to find.

i agree wif u.altho der muz b sum spark in rship but for me sex is a definate no no.sum sparks like intimate kissing n huggin wil do b4 marriage.
1stly like u say no more difference on the 1st nite of weddin if u did it b4
2ndly wat if tis bf is nt ur future husband? den i'll definately feel guilty wen i tell my future husband im not a virgin.so no matter how nice or fun sex is my opinion is i will reli try my very very best so i can proudly tell my husband on my weddin nite, i will gv my virginity to u

Some of the people say that they never mind that their life partner is not a virgin.

They never mind it but they never say that they like it...

woyoo ..... stress nya .. ...
Sex before marriage ... most guys in the world today ... would say yes ... and a very small countable number .. would abstain ...
as for girls .. atleast half the women here in malaysia would have pre-m sex .. let me gtry and give u a few points favouring this ..

1. U get to see each other naked ... Ucan tell if u find each other attractive or not . attraction is important ..

2. U get to test drive the equipment .. and ensure that everything works well .. i'mportant .. can see if partner is healthy ...or not ..

3. get to see if sex is good , bad , just okay , horrible, bla bla bla .. i'mpornant for a healthy relationship..

4. for girls ... when u have sex with ur partner ... initially he will be all horny and jumping on u like an animal .. but after awhile .. he will tone down a bit .. and U will get to see who he really is ... I mean .. like .. he will be more sayang sayang .. instead of just trying to fark u all the time ..

5. if u don't like sex with him ... or her .. u have the option of ending it .. if ur already married .. ur screwed .. in away ..

6. sex builds closeness and strengthens the bond of the relationship ... U try and kacau and see a long term couple .. bf or gf ... the partner will come find u and kill u !! ..

IMO .. the pros outweigh the cons in sex before marriage ...
yea yeah ..some idiots might say that sex is not everything la .. this la that la ... ask those idiots to show u a young healthy married couple who dont have sex / or dont enjoy the sex / or who claim that sex in their relationship is not important .. and that they are happy .... show show ??!?
bullshit !!
Good Sex = happy healthy relationship
bad sex / no sex = either partner is gonna cheat / leave / miserable / unhealthy / depressed / mentally ill ..

Good sex is only good for short term relationship...

then must have bad sex for long term one is it ?

When people get older, the need for sex will be less aggressive...

So, sex is not very important now if compared to the time they are still young.

They need something else to maintain their good relationship...

This post has been edited by lcl832002: Apr 8 2009, 12:18 AM

agree with u also

Well, sometime is the opposite direction, young ppl no time and old ppl have too many time

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Added on April 13, 2009, 10:31 pmI think if the couple only think sex is their way forward to love one another then it will be wrong. Becoz, it have become they rely on sex for their relationship. What happen if one day they ar fed up with one another..... separation/ divorce...

I think sex it is something someone need to think after marriage....

This post has been edited by magentus2002: Apr 13 2009, 10:31 PM

sexbefore marriage is normal.
But once relationship got steady I felt that tend not to have so much sex as frequent. May be already bored with each other. That might be one of the reason some girls do not wan to have sex before marriage.

It depends on how we think. If you think it is ok, just do it and be prepared. If you don't think it is ok, then postpone it to the special night.

Yes, I agree with you..

I believe that when you don't have sex before marriage, you will look for other things in the other person that will keep you attracted to each other.. thats how you strengthen the relationship and it will last much longer...

If you use rely on sex.. what happens when u get older and less attractive or less *sex-goddess*.. die la like that...

sex is good for heal, but need to careful !

as long as it happen with the one i really love,it doesn't matter for me before or after marry.

How do you know you really love your partner???

support~~

Me too...

if you can answer me what is love then ill tell you how.