Few more days to go is our one year anniversary, but she told me that she has feeling with other guy, just simply admire him. What should i do? I am totally in dilemma, dunno whether want to treat her good like last time i did, but i scare the most i gave, more pain i get. Haiz.. so how ?

Dump her and search for another, simple...

"anniversary" meaning you guys are married or just pak toh for 1 year? Take it easy and dun jump to conclusion yet.. find out what she actually mean. My wife likes Tom Cruise... but so what? Doesn't mean she loves him!!

tell her that u have feelings for another woman, much much better than her, then dump. plenty of fish in the sea, so no worries. just hope u got some mileage out of that rig.

it time to move on,bro!!

When your girl have feeling for other guy.....it is an indication that she is seeking new pastures.


No matter what u do,it will never be the same again.

cheh.. i once in awhile admire someone also. But i have bf for 3 years now.
Well, admire only, doesn't mean i wanna start a relationship with him, doesn't mean i have sex with him. So what??

she just admire him doesn't mean she like him..

admire and like is different feeling...

Talk to her, dont scare her and dont loose urself too. Listen to whatever she say, dont interrupt, but in the end tell her ur opinion in a cool-adult like manner on what u think about it. dont go all pissed off on her admiring another guy. then give urself few days to think on what she has said... usually when a couple decided to talk, if one of them loose temper or assume it was like this or that, makes harsh decision, thats when it wrecks everything.

Guys are not allowed to open a thread in the girl's club wor.

Anyway, it's just admiration. If you're so scared, you should tie her up and keep her to yourself.

If you give so much and expect something in return, it's not love. It's a trade.

admire oni ma bro.

p/s. find the guy, kill him.

U should trust her. Dont jump into rash decisions until u can confrim the facts.

And confront the guy if possible, no need to beat him up first.

Really guys cannot post anything at here?? sorry i dunno..

let says if continue the relationship, I will still suspect she will do it again.. Admire will be upgraded to love or sth .. dun you think so?

She's giving you a hint she's gonna dump u sooner or later.

she cant be trusted

she will be unfaithful to u

best gift for her on anniversary is DUMP HER.


thats how u play the game dump before she dump u then u can have the last laugh

This post has been edited by Flizzardo: Feb 3 2009, 06:11 PM

But before you dump her, bang her first.

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