QUOTE(preeti216 @ Feb 2 2009, 01:18 PM)
Hi,
I've joined recently in to this forum.I have a problem which I am unable to solve by myself.I have fallen in love with a guy an year ago.And the guy also liked me at the time.He was a frnd of mine.We were very close at that time.And I don't know whether it was attraction or love I liked him very much.But after some time he said that we don't have any future so I should forget him.He used to talk to me regularly in a private and in public he used maintain that I am not close to him.Then later Ive got to know that he was just attracted to me and it was not love.But I genuinely loved him and I am still unable to forget him.And he said that because of me could not get close to any girls.Although he moved on in his life and hanging out with other people esp girls.I felt cheated and I was very depressed.
It was the first time I ever loved any person,and he cheated on me.My whole life was completely shattered.
So now,I lost trust in love.If any guy is interested also I am not getting any feelings towards them although they are good.I am unable to move on although the previous guy completely ignores me.My self-esteem also got lowered because of this incident.I keep on think what went wrong if i did any thing wrong.Eventhough except this guy everybody likes me and they like to talk to me.Please help me.I dont know why I am unable to move on.Please do suggest some thing.Your help in this is highly appreciated.
First.. what did he cheat u.............I've joined recently in to this forum.I have a problem which I am unable to solve by myself.I have fallen in love with a guy an year ago.And the guy also liked me at the time.He was a frnd of mine.We were very close at that time.And I don't know whether it was attraction or love I liked him very much.But after some time he said that we don't have any future so I should forget him.He used to talk to me regularly in a private and in public he used maintain that I am not close to him.Then later Ive got to know that he was just attracted to me and it was not love.But I genuinely loved him and I am still unable to forget him.And he said that because of me could not get close to any girls.Although he moved on in his life and hanging out with other people esp girls.I felt cheated and I was very depressed.
So now,I lost trust in love.If any guy is interested also I am not getting any feelings towards them although they are good.I am unable to move on although the previous guy completely ignores me.My self-esteem also got lowered because of this incident.I keep on think what went wrong if i did any thing wrong.Eventhough except this guy everybody likes me and they like to talk to me.Please help me.I dont know why I am unable to move on.Please do suggest some thing.Your help in this is highly appreciated.
U love him doesnt mean he love u.........
U just fall in love with wrong guy only............
It fine u lost trust in loves but u cannot accept other guy becoz ur love toward him havent die yet..................

Feb 2 2009, 02:00 PM

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