dun blame guy if u love them but they don't....

and there are many thing that u not mention to clear up the situation. for examples..

his age..
his hobby... and anything that might help.

usually, guy will start to bored if gals are controlling their life, and guy usually know the meaning of love and marriage after they exceed 25 years old...before that..it hard to find guy that fully matured. I hope this helps