case settle..!!thanks for advice!

This post has been edited by donkey123*: Apr 5 2009, 08:22 PM

If the age gap is not too much then let her be. Its her choice anyway.

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This post has been edited by donkey123*: May 27 2009, 01:50 AM

oh come on ...we know your 'friend' is actually you

ask ur friend dont think so much le...and i think u can indicate something to her bf if u know him,ask him to think about something to get back his gf's interest on him

This post has been edited by J-Slade: Jan 26 2009, 11:36 PM

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This post has been edited by donkey123*: May 27 2009, 01:51 AM

tell her to fall out of love with the lecturer

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This post has been edited by donkey123*: May 27 2009, 01:51 AM

She sure dat its love or not?

tell her to think about how his daughter would feel knowing his father cheat with her. tell her she'll think of her as a sL*t and condemn her for the rest of her life. does she wants that ? if she's cool with that then.. dunno wtsay lor

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This post has been edited by donkey123*: May 27 2009, 01:52 AM

well baby, I bet u guys is still in hyppie go lucky years (teenagers), so thats normal. During this time, u guys are in state of rapidly hormon changing thus confusing, bored fast in relationship, etc were pretty enticing for some of us. And for your dear friend, asked her is it love at 1st sight? perhaps its lust? or maybe appereance matter? and why shes bored with her current boyfriend atm? communication barrier? moody sex? Bring her to decent place thats can bring peace of mind, sit and slow talk with her. Tell her if shes very sure with her present feeling? It may sound fun couple with lecturer but bear on mind that every action has consequence, but if its for fun i suggest is No no, but oh hell up to her

This post has been edited by neoravekandi: Jan 27 2009, 12:25 AM

>< well, that's how love is. Even if you're in love with someone, there are always moments where you might suddenly feel that someone else is more attractive. From what you've told us, it seems to me that:

a) your friend isn't too happy with her bf
b) she's quite attracted to this lecturer

I can't really help with a) since that's her own problem, but if you look at b), I think she could write down how she feels in a letter. She doesn't have to give it to him, but at least writing it down will help her identify how she *really* feels about this guy. We may say we really like someone, but what is it we really like about them?

Last, but not least, I think you should just listen to her when she wants to talk. I don't think she really needs any advice right now =D At times like these, we just want someone who will listen to us, without telling us how stupid we are xD

age shouldn't be a barrier...
our mind should be it

but the lecturer is married get it? n has a daughter...
this wont work k? my fren been wit a lecturer before...that lecturer is a playboy anyway...so they dint work out well...and this matter have been go to the other lecturers ear..and they have been discussing n so on...i tink they dun allowed tis kind of relationship in college or U too...so ...

just go for it ... lecturer are people too

nothing wrong to have relationship with them

age doesnt matter la forget morality or one of those society shits .. they are just jealous because they cant get some thats why the society limit others..

Just had to post: No way, don't go for it. Hands off a married man. Don't even think about it.

doesnt mean he is married he cant have some fun

Completely disagree. Cheating is so low for a man.