QUOTE(kotmj @ Aug 28 2010, 12:16 AM)
You obviously love this particular friend of yours very much beau, but I do not see why you are protecting him so militantly. Gshen's remarks were just his honest superficial observation, and did not imply any deep knowledge of your friend to make his observations an accurate reflection of his bespeaking skills.
+100
Oh c'mon. I think things are getting out of hand. This is my last response and if you feel the need to, please take it to PMs.
QUOTE(beau @ Aug 28 2010, 12:09 AM)
Your response is very telling .
1. It is a fallacy to generalize & group all Asian Tailors under the same category. If you have been following this thread, Kotmj had fought hard to get his way with his tailor to the extent that he is now commissioning a fully canvassed non fused suit !!. Similarly the reputable Hong Kong tailors ( WW Chan ) would risk their reputation to take on commissions that do not accurately reflect their clients intent.
I think your mutual tailor will be in for a rude awakening if the jacket my friend is commissioning does not reflect the understanding he had arrived at with your mutual tailor . Either there would be numerous fittings & re-cutting until consensus is arrived at or he may ask me to post his remarks with supporting pictures to express his unhappiness with the end product. If any of his request are beyond your mutual tailor's capability, it is best that this be raised at the onset & expectations set early.
What? I said fairly common in a general context, and I think it is a fair comment. Anyway, I also fought hard with my tailor years ago, when she was used to cutting suits for an older set of customers. Kotmj (with ALT) and probably the first generation Chan customers asking for a soft coat likely spent lots of blood & sweat paving the way for what we know they are 'good at' now. I don't see your point, srsly.
My comments were directed at the fact that his instructions were not 100% clear. You can read back on one of my earlier posts about his request for a high gorge, and example of a low gorge. This is an objective remark BTW. It would be wise for any customer, not just him, to have a clear (or clearer) idea of what you want. It would be hard to push the blame to the tailor when the product is unsatisfactory if instructions weren't clear. No matter how experienced someone is with bespoke, I'm sure you'll agree that there are times when we screw up and forget to communicate a request. No one is infallible.
TBH, if you want to know, I have no interest now in whether or not you both are happy with his suit or the tailor. If you feel the need to post a negative review, feel free to do so. Maybe that will speed up my commissions too. I hope my previous comments helped, but I see no point in any further comments about the matter..
QUOTE(beau @ Aug 28 2010, 12:09 AM)
2. Most of us are open to constructive feedback. However your comments do not seem to be substantiated apart from implying that my friend is confused & you did not like his Brioni suit. Given the fact that you claim to have have experience in interacting with your mutual tailor, perhaps it would be useful for you to list down in detail how you would have instructed your mutual tailor had you been in his place. The other forumers ( both here & on SF ) have provided detailed feedback on their interactions with their respective tailors which serves as a useful guide on how to engage with the said tailors.
Eh? I did try to substantiate the fact that his instructions were not clear. Confused is a poor and rather negative description, so for that I apologize. BTW, you also implied that his Brioni suit was not your favourite.
I don't see how I am obliged to list down such a 'formula', though. There is no guaranteed formula for a successful bespoke attempt or relationship, and the last thing I want is to be held for providing a 'wrong formula'.
QUOTE(beau @ Aug 28 2010, 12:09 AM)
3. Were you fully privy to the entire discussion between the tailor & my friend? Did you have an opportunity to peruse the checklist compiled by him? Do you know what his intended use of the commission in question?
The shop isn't particularly big, and everybody's conversations can be heard. Also, he speaks English, and the tailor isn't very proficient in the language, so I often act as a translator when she directs questions to me. She is also not very familiar with technical terms in English and I help translate based on what I figured in my past experience.
No, I do not know the intended use, nor did he communicate it. Is it my job to find out? /shrugs
QUOTE(beau @ Aug 28 2010, 12:09 AM)
4. Would you care to share your other experiences in instructing other tailors apart from Iris? Any interaction with the big boys in HK? ( WW Chan, etc ) What about the Row ? Or any experience with the big designer names or artisans in Italy?
How is this relevant to our conversation? I did not claim to possess any knowledge at all outside this tiny realm. If you are trying to paint me as a small timer, I will readily admit as I have in the past, that I am indeed small time.
QUOTE(beau @ Aug 28 2010, 12:09 AM)
5. By your own admission you spend an inordinate amount of time at Iris. The feedback you have given here ( as well as SF & London Lounge ) seems to support the assertion that you either have a vested interest in your mutual tailor or have frequent commissions as part of your lifestyle or work requirements.
I have also established on SF that I am a personal friend of the tailor's daughter, and over the years have become close friends with my tailors. They are a very nice couple and I sometimes drop by to idle chat when I happen to be in Orchard Rd.
If you need to know, I do not get paid commissions, and am taking my personal time to hold the cloth sale on SF for them for
f r e e . I have also openly criticized their shirts for not being particularly good value and recommended other tailors in HKG as alternatives.
Anyway, by that same token, would you suspect whnay and Mafoofan for having vested interests in Rubinacci? Vox in Steed? kotmj in ALT?
QUOTE(beau @ Aug 28 2010, 12:09 AM)
In the meantime we shall see the outcome of my friend's commission before pre maturely declaring it as a disaster
Did I declare it a disaster? I wish him good luck with his commission anyway, but will be sure to stay out of his affairs on visits in the future since it seems that my presence is unwelcome.