lol chickie, will it not be easier to consider a female as an individual rather than a female?so you'll be going out with an individual, not just female in particular.
Ah, in the past i have collectively group all female, instead of considering as individuals...
Testing myself into pool of unisex........just like this
2 years ago i went out with a girl 4 years older than me knowing from that, take things slowly la...Normal friends as girls are good enuff already. Just talk to them about ur intrests? or make them feel special? sumtimes they may even want someone to ehar them out.
Relationship is out of question currently.......i just want to have a decent female friend, who i can socialise with, talk with, and possibily invite her for occasional movie watching or meal.......as simple as that
Speaking of that, i don't know who fits the bill...
This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Jan 7 2009, 03:58 AM
to tell you the truth i was once also AFRAID of girls..... i thought they are some alien from outer space (NO JOKE ). But once i manage to control this fear they are just humans with feelings too you know ? They too want to have friends . Aren't there any female students in your E&E course ? , How about joining some clubs bro definitely this will expose you more bro
Count me in, when i was in school.............i really thought females are alien or extra-terrestrial creatures!
Group dates always a good solution. Never go out on a 1-to-1 date with a girl unless u know her well from the frequent outings as a group and know she the right one to start a relationship with
Group date or 1-to-1........doesn't matter......i just want to spend my time with decent activities rather than squarely facing computer screen...
QUOTE(Laguna @ Jan 7 2009, 04:03 AM)
High five but do you know my school have exchange class with japanese girls from japan . That is why i join the japanese club to mix with them . They are very friendly
Added on January 7, 2009, 4:04 am
Bullseye one great tip also kampung should try this out and me i should too
What interests you? list out the things you like and hobbies starting with the best/favourite things u like/like to do
MAJOR
- Infrastructure (highway, power stations, skyscrapers) photo taking - Automotive technology ( i don't have licence to drive lah) - Railway engineering (personally, i can camp in railway station for hours to take photos)
hmm you seek friendship but you dont want to be open to others
It is not that i don't want to be open to others, simply....my interests are quite different than others.....and i can't force myself to learn something that i don't really interested...
Its up to up to you bro kampung when you feel that is time to expand your interests than go for it . Not forcing you bro and about co existence i agree with you assimilated nah i prefer the term accepted . very funny
If possible, the next action is to ask someone to go out with me for a movie or a meal............again, as a friend