My opinion, if a girl want something out of her life, she should go ahead do it and achieve it rather than hoping the bf or future hubby give it to her.

I really looking down on these type of girls; no vision, no determination, scare to try, dare not to lose, a lot to complain and whining. You are who you make yourself are! Please just dont just depends on the boy side, they are from normal human family just like where you come from.

As a son and man of the family, it is their responsibility to take care of the whole family. As a woman, you marry into the guy's family and live with them and under their roof in peace and love.

I'm sorry if i sounds big man ego, and i dont deny my man ego. This is what keep things balance in life, rather than one side endless giving, then other side endless receiving, like paying an endless debt.

If that's my gf, the moment she open her mouth and say such thing to me, that's where the relationship end on the spot, period. The rule is very easy, if you like a person and want to be with that person, you have to accept him/her as a whole, and be the first to support him/her all the time no matter where, when, and what it is all the way until the end. Really sorry of that boy, scare of losing her, but to take whatever sh!t the gf pull out.

This post has been edited by iDk: Jan 7 2009, 08:09 PM