Lets put it the other way. Say, a girl is facing some serious financial problem (family problem). Her bf, come from moderate family background, with better and steadier income, has been supporting her for some time. His saving is minimal though, and could only plan for a simple ceremony.

Many times, the girl feel that she had burden her bf, and asked for breakup. They argue, quarrel, fight. The bf also do complain about her neverending family problem. Yet he knows, he can't leave her especially at time like this. And still he remain by her and support her.

Sometimes, rather than comparing our partner with others, we might want to look at ourselves first. How good (or perfect) are we comparing to our own circle of friends, and our partner circle of friends. If you are considering single life, then go ahead and take charge

If you are looking at marriage as part of your life, then you may need to give it a second though thou. Comparison and desire is to drive us to become better, not discourage us. Life may not be happy all the time, but it was the unhappiness moment that makes us treasure the best moment even more. Give it a second thought.