QUOTE(booklover @ Jan 15 2009, 02:18 AM)
thats the thing. i asked the person to weigh and give the stamps. not that i simply put cos i didnt know how much to put also. and they haven sent to me or buyer. grr... crazy system la.
haih. for all you know the person has already received the item. maybe not satisfied so ask for refund disguised as haven gotten package yet. aiyo that person wont post here la. then people will know who it is ma. then rep gone.
maybe its still on the way? wad normal post sud take longer rite?
QUOTE(fruitie @ Jan 15 2009, 03:04 AM)
Well, I'll say based on my opinion. So it might vary from your thought. Firstly, I would really appreciate if y_owez can try to find out for the good's tracking number. It eases a lot and clears confusion between the seller and buyer, in addition it is the best proof to prove the seller's innocence. Next, seller has sent it out and done whatever he or she is obligated to. The buyer should know the risk of accepting purchase via postage. Even if it is Poslaju, GDex or any other courier service, each of them doesn't carry 100% reliability.
Let's move on to the refund part, if the buyer requests for refund, it will be unfair to the seller because seller has done his/her part. OK, if the seller is willing to refund because the good doesn't reach buyer eventually (touchwood), then seller please do so but you have to set for a time frame for this. For example, 1 month from the date which the item was delivered.
To recap everything, seller has no obligation to proceed with refund because he/she has done his/her part. However, in order to prove this, seller must find out the slip as soon as possible. Else, seller can always go back to the respective post office to make an enquiry regarding this matter, who knows if they do keep a record for this?
In short, try to settle this in peace. There is no use to argue over a mere RM 30.00. Good luck in solving this issue! Sorry, if my explanation sounds contradictory.

tanks for the answer + explanation. appreciated it. will quote this to the buyer.
i tried looking for it, even asked aunt to find, most prob she threw it away

for the 1 month part, i think i am willing for this. but it will fall on CNY lol.
i went to is a sort of post office agent. not post office itself.. not too sure if will layan me cuz only 1 counter.