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Serious HelOoo...., Be My Fren ba`... -It's New Year Time-

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post Dec 21 2008, 03:16 PM

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QUOTE(SilenTz_1993 @ Dec 21 2008, 12:21 PM)
good job TS . i'm sure u will find someone  blush.gif
all the best ~  smile.gif
when you have the guts to post your own picture here... u already make it !  laugh.gif
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Well said. Good luck to the OP.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:35 PM

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QUOTE(shinjo @ Dec 21 2008, 03:34 PM)
Hi dear`  blush.gif  mind to be fren ??
support this thread will ya`?
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Any luck yet? =)
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:39 PM

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QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 03:35 PM)
He is trying... but maybe next year gathering will have...  thumbup.gif
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Yeah, I'm rooting for him. =)

QUOTE(shinjo @ Dec 21 2008, 03:35 PM)
more than happy enough .. gain a lot of new frens.. no one to date, but plans to have gathering. Still nice  thumbup.gif
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See, it's a good thing. I respect anyone who would post his real pic. It shows you're open and honest enough. Unlike some idiot who posted his pic earlier in your thread just to snatch attention away from you but that doesn't matter.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:42 PM

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QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 03:40 PM)
Hahaha... well, vinspire will forever be Moose Boy...  thumbup.gif
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How perceptive. =) That's exactly who i was talking about. Whatever it is, the OP shouldn't give up hope. There are people i know who have forged a relationship from this forum before. Just don't close eyes to the possibilities.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:44 PM

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QUOTE(geekster129 @ Dec 21 2008, 03:41 PM)
some people said that Moose Boy looked better?

How?
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That's not a very nice thing to say in someone's thread especially when he's opening it for the purpose of looking for a date or partner.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:45 PM

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QUOTE(reengurl @ Dec 21 2008, 03:44 PM)
I don't think looks matter that much in terms of finding your other half or someone to date anyway. Sincerity is much more important =D
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Exactly. You hit it right on the spot. Well said.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:47 PM

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QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 03:45 PM)
Well, sometimes its much better to gain friends first and then later get to know each other better to see where and how it goes between a boy and a girl...

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Yeah, friends into lovers is a wonderful thing indeed.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:49 PM

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QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 03:47 PM)
darklight79 can be very serious... scary...  shocking.gif
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Only to people who deserve it. But since geekster said he was joking, it's cool. =P
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(reengurl @ Dec 21 2008, 03:48 PM)
biggrin.gif This thread is getting merrier don't you guys think? Me likey. Probably going to hang around here for a while, I'm bored  blush.gif
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Yeah the people in this thread seem pretty mellow, laidback and friendly. An attitude which i adopt most of the time.
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post Dec 21 2008, 03:54 PM

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QUOTE(geekster129 @ Dec 21 2008, 03:51 PM)
Only this way will you have a meaningful life mar...

Life is meant to be enjoyed. Not to be sorrowed smile.gif
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Quoted for truth. Too many people spend time looking straight ahead. They don't pause to look around and enjoy like around them as it is.

QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 03:52 PM)
Hahaha... well, better than reading all those broken hearts threads... which seem to be sprouting everywhere...  sweat.gif
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They tend to get too melancholy for my taste.
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post Dec 21 2008, 04:01 PM

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QUOTE(reengurl @ Dec 21 2008, 03:54 PM)
Yep, I agree. None of those usual nonsense types. ( no offense to anyone but you know how some of them are )
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Heh... you're talking to a rather longtime LYN member. There was a thread about a lesbian being raped at Kopitiam. Some idiots were making fun of it in the first page for the "lulz". Wtf right? It's disgusting. I got fed up for a while which is why I stayed in Health & Fitness for a while and didn't venture out, but the quality of the threads are improving.

QUOTE(geekster129 @ Dec 21 2008, 03:55 PM)
Haha.. hope you guys won't mind at my joker nature when posting...
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It's cool.

QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 03:57 PM)
It's depressing to read all sorts of comments and how broken up they are... I mean come on... life is full of possibilities... holding on for being broken up isn't moving at all...

At least with a little light humor it brings many smiles and attracts more forumers to join us and have a good time making new friends and meet up...  smile.gif
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Yes, unfortunately, there are too many wiseasses on the forum who keep thinking Kopitiam and CC is exclusively for trolling. It's the wiseguy wannabe mentality which turns me off.
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post Dec 21 2008, 04:03 PM

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QUOTE(geekster129 @ Dec 21 2008, 04:02 PM)
woot darklight79 suddenly "pin-san" become so macho and sexy already tongue.gif
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What's pin-san? Sorry my Cantonese isn't that good.
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post Dec 21 2008, 04:06 PM

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QUOTE(geekster129 @ Dec 21 2008, 04:05 PM)
haha... it means transformed.
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Ohh... lol. That's me going just 3 days without shaving. Haha!! My facial hair grows really fast.
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post Dec 21 2008, 04:08 PM

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QUOTE(reengurl @ Dec 21 2008, 04:06 PM)
Yep, which is why sometimes I don't even bother replying to those threads, even though I have something I would like to say. Completely spoils the whole purpose of Cupid Corner. I mean, even if they're making up the topics for fun or something, who knows?  shakehead.gif Someone might need some advice or opinion. Oh well...  laugh.gif
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I think... quite a long time ago there was a lady who opened up a thread at CC. She was being abused by her husband and she found out he was also cheating on her. She was contemplating divorce and asked CC for advice. Now that was a good thread. Everyone was giving overwhelming support to her including me. She finally found the courage to leave him and take her kids along with her. She pm'ed me a few years ago saying thanks to everyone. I never head from her again. I guess she has a new life now.

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post Dec 21 2008, 04:13 PM

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QUOTE(ghoul88 @ Dec 21 2008, 04:10 PM)
wow sweat.gif
really? so, that thing really happen here...
sound very complicated...
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Hell yeah. Her posts were so full of anguish you could kinda feel the vibes radiating off her if such a thing was possible. I'm glad she got all that out of her life. I wonder how she's doing though.
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post Dec 21 2008, 04:17 PM

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QUOTE(reengurl @ Dec 21 2008, 04:13 PM)
The thing about Cupid Corner is that sometimes, people tend to view things one sided. I completely understand why they think that way ( for moral reasons most of the time ) Like for instance, adultery. In a morally correct point of view, adultery is of course something that is condone by society. But to think from the person committing adultery's point of view, he or she might have different reasons for committing it, we don't know, because we are not in their shoes. But geez, all those people in cupid corner! They're very fast to jump into assumptions and conclusions! Which could be quite damaging to the topic starters, for they are seeking advice and opinions...not solutions to their problems  rclxub.gif

Oh...my God. I am a grandmother after all  sweat.gif I write too much T_T
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Great points grandma.

Jk. =)

Anyway, we all know it is within human beings' innate natures to judge. I always give people the benefit of the doubt no matter what. As they say there're many facets to a gem.


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post Dec 21 2008, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(shinjo @ Dec 21 2008, 04:17 PM)
Nope, u r write..  tat's why due to recent Mochi's thread, i also apologize to her liao.She is a nice person as well. Jus that i dun like the idea of being dump for nothing wrong. . 
That's why i'm in search for the someone here. I believe there's still nice ppl .
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At least you apologized. It's ok to make mistakes, just not ok to repeat them again and again. You need to know that the world isn't just black and white as it is. Try seeing it through colored glasses, big eyes, small eyes, slanted eyes, etc. You get the idea. It is a complex, beautiful place at the same time.

QUOTE(reengurl @ Dec 21 2008, 04:18 PM)
Ah, I can't speak Mandarin ( not that I'm proud of that ) I mean, I could understand to a little...I could even try to speak a little...but then I sound weird  sweat.gif I guess my Cantonese should be a little bit better x_x because in Penang, I speak Hokkien =D and I didn't attend Chinese school or any formal Chinese education ( blame it on my parents. )
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I don't agree with you partially. I'm proud to be a banana. The differences in language and culture separates mankind and causes conflict. People are already judgmental about how the shape and color of our eyes differ from another's. Judging based on language just adds fuel to the fire.

If i know Mandarin and English at the same time, good. But if I just speak the English language, that doesn't make me any better or worse than any of you. Judge not a person based on the circumstances of his birth I say.
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QUOTE(geekster129 @ Dec 21 2008, 04:34 PM)
Many conflicts are being created because of difference in human ideology/religion/culture/politics/etc. which they cannot agree with each other. But we didn't know that it all started from a very small beginning of our inner selves.

Most important thing is that we must always remember that no one in this world is born perfect. Just look at your five fingers. Are they all of the same length?

Each of us are born to complement each other. We were born with some advantages and those advantages that we don't have will be complemented by another person. The advantages that we have will complement the advantages that is not possessed by another person.

I remembered watching an orchestra performance by Yanni Chrysomallis on DVD. He retold an experience of an astronaut who views the Earth from space. As he sees the Earth, he doesn't see any boundary lines as what we always see in maps and globes. The fact is that, the boundary line's are just an imaginary line being drawn by us humans. Such boundary line in fact doesn't really exists.
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It's all relative. Truth is perception and vice versa. Hence the issues about racism, I used to say you would only get affected if you choose to get affected. How nice if all of us were united under one culture, one race and one language. Our gene pool would be stronger for it too. =)
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QUOTE(hairyLGS @ Dec 21 2008, 04:41 PM)
That would be a difficult one to have united under one culture - not everyone can accept each other, let alone the years of generation practice of traditions one have created many years ago...

Also, can you two talk simple please? Some of us may not understand (especially yanniieee - she is a 17 year old 1/2 boy 1/2 girl)
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Hence the concept of an idealistic utopian society is nigh unachievable.

Yanniieee is a hermaphrodite???
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post Dec 21 2008, 04:48 PM

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QUOTE(shinjo @ Dec 21 2008, 04:44 PM)
shih tsu... very cute face de.. it's unlike any shih tsu i see. So i bought back lo.
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I have 3 shih tzus and one terrier. I'm not kidding.

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