QUOTE(debt2000 @ Jul 5 2011, 12:56 PM)
i don't have any habit like gambling and play woman like u say... use my money to pay my mother medical bill,medicine and every month.cause my mother have high blood very serious.so please dont judge me if u do not know my problem...and now when my salary half.....luckily my sister help me to take care of my mother to pay all the medical bil for right now...
Yup, i had generalize your situation. I sincerely apologize to you if i had made a wrong judgement on you.
I know many young fellas had get into financial trouble and some are in really deep trouble. Whatever reason that they came out, it is not primary important, the most important is how they can structure a way to get out of trouble.
The way AKPK system can only work not more than 25% of the people who had seek help and really want to solve their problem. The rest only look for a way to delay their problem and thus can prolong their debts.
Many people who after get AKPK help, half way fail out. Even one of my friend who work with AKPK staffs review that AKPK can only temporarily help out and they still sees majority will fail half way thru the program.
So, for your case, if you intend to bail yourself out, you must have the determination to do so. It will be a few years program and you really need to tide thru at least for the first 2 years. After restructuring, which means most of your salary is gone into AKPK program and leave very little for you to live on, you only can take care of yourself and you will have no means to help others such as your mother sickness and etc, unless u dig into more loans and debts. Of course, you will be slightly better off if you can get a better job offer so that this will increase your cash position.
The best way you can do is try to seek job overseas and earn as much $$$ as you can thru higher paid overseas job. For a start, you can go to SIngapore, Australia, UK or whichever country that can pay you good money and earning a higher income will help you solve your debts. But you may not have a life over there as all your $$$ earn is mean for clearing debts. Dont expect to live like an expat as the $$$ earn is not for you to spend it.
Hope this helps.