Swt. It makes it sound like you were studying rats trying to figure out their breeding patterns.

I think it doesn't work that way. but studying how serious an individual always is at a relationship and always wanting to make it till the end may actually work.

Yes chickie, it is very very complicated.

Relationship, or should I say love, makes you wanna laugh and jump in joy and thank the heavens and appreciate living.

But that very same emotion can make you depressed, make you wanna die, make you swear and curse the heavens and fate, makes you feel like you never met a living being like that...

wow brianette. Nice watch.

Sigh... This proves that just because we want it, just because we planned it, doesn't mean that it would happen. In fact, the more well planned something is, the more easily it could be messed up.

Living is hard... That's really life.

Lol, then chickie you must call me a guru dy. I have your life's most searched for answer.

Good things can come out of a relationships. But so cann bad things.

In a way, because bad things happen, you appreciate the good things more.

Being in love is like eating dark chocolate. There's those sweet times where you feel so heavenly. There's also the downright bitter times that can make you sad. But because there is bitterness, the chocolate will seem all the much sweeter.

Too bad life has no restore point then. It'll be easier for everyone. But no one comes out of a relationship without learning anything. At least there is that. But youknow what people say. The hardest point of a relationship is the 3rd year, 5th year and 7th year. I didn't make it out of 5... We had a lot of problems in 3 too...

Nope. My ex was not my 1st bf la Chickie. XD Although he was the one that I was most confident that we can make it in.

This post has been edited by Jamien: Dec 17 2008, 06:12 AM

Lol hi ryo! Fancy seeing you here.

Hmmm... Chickie, next lesson is, love is blind. Sometimes we cannot see some things, and sometimes we choose not to see some things because we love a person.

It wasn't all that sudden la... I kinda saw it coming. That was why it's painful also... It dragged on and my wounds felt like they were dragged on a pavement with lots of rocks and salt till we stopped...

It certainly wasn't my change of mind. Sigh... Guys can be fickle too...

I doubt it could help... You're only on your first point of disaster, the 3rd, and you can hardly make it out. Even now you're not sure. How do you think you will do on the 5th and 7th point? It becomes harder.... Long pain, better short pain...

There are people who just brisk through the 3rd and 5th point. If it stops at the point means there's not enough momentum to continue carrying your relationship over... I'm sorry... I've been there. It never ends well..

The points just show us where we are at life. they don't mean that a relationship MUST have difficulties at that point. Your relationship has an existing problem that just became obvious at the 3rd point...

Yes I agree. Just give it your all. At least you'll come out of your relationship feeling like you've tried your very best and there's nothing left to regret.

Chickie, when you fall in love, your "user manual" gets automatically deleted. N one could ever follow so mechanically. The script and drama unfolds as events and happenings unfold. Life's choices often has more than 1. If you have too many choices your manual won't help anyways.

When it comes to love, you either leap first ad think later or don't leap at all. If you leap, you wont' know what is over the cliff you just jumped into. Would be both good and bad, that's for sure. But if you don't leap, the potential good stuff that could be yours will never be yours. People call it a leap of faith.

When you leap, you can only think what comes next. If got tree, grab it. When got no tree and you hit some water, swim. If you plan to grab tree and no tree, you how? That's why manual useless. Life throws unexpected things at us.

Guy older than me will be better lo. Cannot tahan immature boys dy... Their mentality like children, then how to have a serious relationship.

This post has been edited by Jamien: Dec 17 2008, 06:42 AM

I think depend on your maturity also la Chickie. Some people like younger guys or older gals.

Why not "maturity level similar to yours"-orange light.

"good enough to have a meaningful and productive relationship" - green light.

Hahaha. No!! If I am I would have like, at least a successful relationship right?

It's important, maturity. If you're mature enough you will seek something serious and actually try to make it work out for the both of you. If your partner isn't mature she probably won''t take it as seriously, won't see her flaws and won't forgive yours, end up broken.

Lol we hope you don't end up here although you can always frequent this club even if you're not single. Just no buaya-ing. XD

Chickie I want to work. Cuz I want to be able to help my partner financially and fund our little family together, whether we have kids or not.

BTW money is something couples argue a lot about. If 1 doesn't work, the working one will have a bad thinking "that fella doesn't work, lives on my funding and still doesn't do this stuff right" when there are serious financial issues. They will argue. So I wanna help contribbute financially so money will never be much of an issue.

This post has been edited by Jamien: Dec 17 2008, 07:03 AM

Agree and seconded!!

Have a nice day at work Philip.

Lol chickie, You really thought things through. and the OL part is so... I guess all guys have basic requirements...

This post has been edited by Jamien: Dec 17 2008, 07:08 AM

Hi penguin~ *cuddle~* Hi sinsin!! center of attention as always.