er...... i will sure show pio lar.. you ar.. think first

sigh... at times like these i'll start to think that people just can't stay faithful in a marriege, they're bound to cheat and hurt the each another.. why get married and have kids in the first place?

must think of all those others who stays faithful and are happy

i hope so

apa tuh santa marina??

did we??

i've seen many... many... sigh....

it's not a matter of it can or can't happen it's if you can withstand or stay away from temptations.... it's want or don't want to... i always believe that when something happens in a relationship both parties are responsible but adultery is not a way out and nothing can justify that action. if one is so darn unhappy in their relationship do something about it or end it before you start another relationship. infedelity is not unevitable, it's a choice.

that is the reason to cheat but it does not justify their actions. there's a commitment when you sign those papers and vows were taken to uphold them. if you can't do it don't get married simple as that. i know people cheats and sleeps around or whatever, do it while you're single you have all the freedom you want. if you do not wish to be tied down or you want your excitement to continue don't get married.

if something is lacking in a marriege communicate with your spouse and work on it. using it as an excuse to cheat is not something i could ever accept.

if one party felt neglected then they should voice it out to their husband/wife... not just keep all the emotions bottled up and let it boil and boil and cook it up... i've seen families falls apart because of that fact. because he doesn't spend enough time with her, or she spends too much time at work, his friends are more important than me bla bla bla.... i'm so sick of all these excuses. if you've met another person and want to be with this other person just admit and say so... no amount of excuses would justify your actions. what's the point of putting blame on another just to make your own faults right?

arggghhh i get so angry just thinking about it... must relax.. i think need yoga this afternoon

pio dun go ler... i will miss your cheerful notes

aiya i dun want to discuss about infedelity in relationships anymore.. it always make my mood gloomy... and then i'll start picking fights with guys

nick.. you lor.. yeong sui

i gets very cranky and unpleasant... and i don't like my unpleasant self it's a part of me which i try to avoid as much as possible

pillow fight i like

dog fight nice meh??

nope.... haha i'm not good with keeping my opinions & feelings to myself that's why ppl who are close to me knows i've got a flaring temper and a quick mouth (welll nothing i'm proud of)

ahhh we do know your preference sire....

is it... ok lor... will post lor....

ahhhh mama santa.... you hamsup lou

tat's me... pessimistic me...

tiger you're in no position to comment.. you decline all of our invitations as well

ele, tiger already labelled as hamsuptiger mar you dunno meh?

yalor... so he must be very tolerable lor.. and i promise to be less of a jerk