hi guys n gals, i like to ask for opinions.

im a guy with shoulder length hair, curvy at hair ends, thus the longer my hair grows, the voluminous it gets. hair end tends to curve out like 'wings'.

i have no intentions of cutting it despite of negative comments received. i dun wanna straighten it which cud make me look sissy, i like to retain the natural look. wat is the best method to overcome my grieves?