Background:
I've a neighbour who hangs her dog's towels on the shared fence. Common sense would say that shared fence is a "sacred" area that you usually don't want to cross. Worse is, she hangs her dogs towels on it. It's smelly and causes the fence to rust more quickly. She rents the place. She lives alone, her husband is seldom around and comes back once/twice a week (Travelling).
A quick conversation proved she was irrational. She uttered words like "It's my right", "You guys are fussy", "I will call my landlord". I gave alternative places for her to hang e.g. her own clothes hanger, or on her own gate she claims "It's too far away", "It will get her clothes dirty", "She can hang where she wants because it's her right".
I'm a diplomat. Neighbours are important and we need to count on each other. So I tried to be patient with the character. She finally agreed that it was inappropriate to hang things which she doesn't like around her (e.g. dogs towels). But, that was only temporary. Things turned worse when she started hanging rubbish on the fence. It's clear that she's just irrational and a b**** and would do anything to protect her ego (that the fence is hers). It further proved my assumption when she claims to be "very educated" but speaks unculturally with broad generalizations (e.g. Malaysians are fussy (she spent 4 years in UK). There was some age discrimination and light racist remarks that she made but I won't go there. Her race does not matter, but she's a Malaysian.
Before resorting to a lose-lose situation (taking her garbage and throw it in front of her door), I would like to ask should I choose to battle this legally, what are my options?
E.g. calling MPSJ? Call her landlord? Any experience neighbours know how to sort this out?
Thanks,
Kenny
Dealing with Bad Neighbour (Legal Aspects), Irrational
Nov 1 2008, 12:45 PM, updated 17y ago
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