Hi everyone,

So I've met the love of my life here in Melbourne. I know he is because trust me I've been in heaps of relationships gone terribly bad.

Him and I are perfect together. His family have opened their home to me this past year as I couldn't afford rent for my own place, I've been looking for a job since January and haven't been able to find anything. Although for 6 months I did a couple of internship/industry experience.

My parents and I made the deal that if I hadn't found a job by december, I will return to home in KL and get a job there.

So, December is approaching, still no job, got another rejection today and I'm incredibly sad.

Although I know i HAVE to do this to secure my own future. It sucks not working, not doing anything during the day and I can't wait to start building my career and securing my future, so when I think about that.. I know I have to go back to KL.

It's just that him and I have lived together for a year now, we spend our days and weekends together. I feel sad knowing once I go back he won't have much to do as most of his friends have gone back to their home countries.

But again whenever I feel down I just think, I'll get a job, a car, I'll build my future and this doesn't mean the end...right?

There's mobile phones, skype, webcam, plus he can visit me and I can visit him.

I know I have to do this for my own good, but sigh.. i just want to know what you girls think? Has anyone gone through or is going through a similar experience?

I think long distances can work if we try hard enough.