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 Moving back home, away from boyfriend :(, Just want to vent. Opinions will be good

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jason4883
post Nov 4 2008, 09:53 PM

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LDR is really not an easy thing to maintain. Personally, I had a LDR before.Even though make calls, sms, skype video call almost everyday, but the feeling is not the same as staying together or at least, stay nearby. At least u will be able to see each other everyday.

Imagine that u are on LDR. For example, weekend u wanna go for a movie, like 007, u wanna watch it with your love one. But he/she is at far far away from u. What can u do? U can do nothing. At the beginning of LDR, yes, u try to accept that u 2 are now in LDR, be more understanding. But do ask yourself, how long can this situation be? How long can it last if things continue this way?

Furthermore, when u start working life, is even harder. How often u can apply leave? Yes, if u get job in big corporate, which offers very good benefits to employees. How if it's just a small company? Things are totally different.

Well, LDR is not as easy as u think. Many factors come into consideration when u are in the situation. AFter all, i really feel distance is a factor for a couple. Even now, got a few frens of mine, who are struggling with LDR. But i dont mean that there is not successful LDR couple. There is of course.

Good luck n all the best to you TS.

 

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