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TSlittle_baby
post Jun 22 2009, 08:49 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 22 2009, 05:28 PM)
Yup, that is the essence

Look, your thread is 2008

Now it is 2009

That means, there is no progress at all

You must know how to take risk
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TSlittle_baby
post Jun 22 2009, 08:51 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jun 22 2009, 05:42 PM)
You might want to give him some hints seriously. Do you hang out with him often?

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TSlittle_baby
post Jun 22 2009, 09:01 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 22 2009, 08:52 PM)
Ask him out lah

Marketing must be aggresive and also, well executed
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ask him out with me
ermm hmm.gif ....a bit weird
i knw him from NS

TSlittle_baby
post Jun 22 2009, 09:05 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 22 2009, 09:02 PM)
Why weird?

It is either do nothing and gain/lose nothing or do something, but you may gain or lose something
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coz i knw him in NS
aft out frm there,we didnt hang out b4
waiting for the next gathering
haha

TSlittle_baby
post Jun 22 2009, 09:11 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 22 2009, 09:08 PM)
Next gathering? As in reunion of NS trainees?
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yup
i he not evytimes oso got go
1st n 2nd gathering he n me didnt go
3rd time(mid year holiday)
i went to china,so cant go
but he got go

TSlittle_baby
post Jun 22 2009, 10:48 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 22 2009, 09:17 PM)
Then, made it happen and prepare something lah

But then, just meet him first

Did you contacted him recently?
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we contact through msn
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post Jun 23 2009, 03:12 PM

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QUOTE(Walala123 @ Jun 22 2009, 11:53 PM)
hint him la. dun confess directly . sounds too despo adi
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how to hint him?
examples?

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post Jun 23 2009, 03:16 PM

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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ Jun 23 2009, 11:25 AM)
What else u think u should do?
Whack him?
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whack him?
how to whack?

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post Jun 23 2009, 08:13 PM

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QUOTE(B@rt @ Jun 23 2009, 04:26 PM)
*cracks my knuckles*

Time for my se kiu of the day.

Hey little_baby,

You didn't give much info on how old u are or what you do and so on so this is going to be a bit general. 

Firstly you need to find out whether he knows you exist. If he doesn't know who you are that's fine. If you know each other then it would be easier.

In the event that he doesn't know you exist you have to look him up on facebook and find out what his hobbies /interest lies.  If he doesn't have facebook or his facebook doesn't provide any of the information required you need to ask your friend to ask his friend what are his hobbies.  Try to be as subtle as possible without letting out that there is a girl interested in him.  Then you need to research on his hobby, eg computer gaming or dancing, and join him in his hobby.  Make friends with him this way and hang out/makan/yum cha with him after playing computer games at the CC for example.  Try to keep the conversations casual and about the hobby.  Give him I REPEAT give him your MSN/number.  If he calls/contacts you, half the battle is won.  Also try to get as many one on one sessions with him as possible. You can do this by asking him to pick u up in his car to go for activities, having lunch/dinner with him etc.  Say something along the lines of "wah after that session I'm very hungry lah. Can stop for some food?"

During outings with him dress sweetly, try butt hugging jeans, spaghetti straps, tie your hair if your hair is long (I like it that way i dunno why) etc.  When u're one on one with him like when he drives you home flirt with him a bit like say "wah ur hair very smooth leh" and run your fingers through his hair or act like you're annoyed in a manja way when he teases you and slap his shoulders and say "So funny meh *smack*" or playfully put an arm around his shoulders when taking pictures that sort of stuff.

Most important is to make it seem natural and make him fall for you and make him court you instead of the other way around.

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i 19yrs old.he oso
i got his fs,facebook,msn
and we got chit chat at msn,but then sumtimes la.
not always
1 thg i dunno y is..
sumtimes i feel he treat me neglect,sumtimes treat me "warm"
last time when both of us online,then he didnt find me and chat
evytimes oso i initiative to find him and start a conversation
sumtimes we can chat until midnite,sumtimes feel like him lazy to reply
10 times,9 times i initiative
gradually,i tot tht i m beh hiao paiseh lidat
so i seldom find him n chat already
even i online,i oso set appear offline

i got his hp num,he oso got my num
i mean last time la
evytimes oso i sms him,n he wont reply my msg in a period
mayb 10 mins,30 mins or even didnt reply me
so i feel so sad,and then i dun wan 2 sms him again

dunno wht can i do
if msn find him,oso dunno wht wan to chat
haiz~
*my english a bit poor,hope tht wont make u blur



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post Jun 23 2009, 09:50 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 23 2009, 08:27 PM)
Do you know his interests?
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i think is plying online games
and watch mv

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post Jun 23 2009, 09:58 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 23 2009, 09:51 PM)
And yours?

The larger the difference, the more things you can chat, haha...

I guess you lack of capitals for a decent chat heh?
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for me,i seldom watch mv~


The larger the difference, the more things you can chat??
sumtimes he ask me this or tht i oso dunno

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post Jun 23 2009, 10:16 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 23 2009, 10:10 PM)
Can learn bit by bit...

Based from my experience, it is always easy to chat, if both of us have large difference of interests...

But, still....there should be at least, one thing, that you can have a common interest with him, like food (just an example)
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oo....

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post Jun 23 2009, 10:26 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 23 2009, 10:21 PM)
Still, for now...small hints
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he is online now
should i find him n chat?
n i hv no idea wht wanna chat wif him

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post Jun 23 2009, 11:15 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 23 2009, 10:32 PM)
Up to you, if you do so, please update, if it is appropriate...
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i greet to him
but didnt ans me~ smile.gif

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post Jun 24 2009, 09:04 PM

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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Jun 24 2009, 02:55 AM)
Someone once told me:

"It is better to know, than to spend the rest of your life wondering"

Why wonder and think "Does he like me or doesn't he" until you're 99 years of age? Would you really like to do that?
or would you rather just break the ice get to talk to him and find out whether he shares the same affection or not.

So what are you afraid of?

Does talking to guys make you spontaneously combust in flames?
Does talking to guys result in family death?
Does talking to guys give you critical illness?
Does talking to guys start world wars?

I don't know, maybe you might know the answer eh?
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thx for ur advices~
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post Jun 24 2009, 10:10 PM

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QUOTE(ar188 @ Jun 24 2009, 09:57 PM)
maybe you should change target.. kampung is very polite..and will greet you..  brows.gif
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post Jun 24 2009, 10:18 PM

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QUOTE(n406 @ Jun 24 2009, 10:04 PM)
ee.. u shuld just make friend with that guy 1st. -.-
as u in his position suddenly 1 guy approach u say, i love u, i like u
or something like tat..
what will u do? run? or accept? hahaha i wuld be run i guess.
just get to know him 1st..
just for 1st step... go intro urself and let him know, ask for email/msn/Hp no.. then u can get in touch with him already and just let the things go by it on..
BUT, if he didnt gv u any contact number then might just want to forget him..
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i got his msn.email n hp num
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post Jun 24 2009, 10:57 PM

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QUOTE(maggi @ Jun 24 2009, 10:41 PM)
hi lilttle baby
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hi maggi~
can i plus "mee" biggrin.gif

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post Jun 24 2009, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(maggi @ Jun 24 2009, 11:12 PM)
no , u cant . u can treat me pan mee ?
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juz jk~
can~~~but no at klang utama
their pan mee not nice tongue.gif


 

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