Is the house fully paid up?

The house loan under whose name you, her or both?

If it's her stop paying... sweet

If it's you stop paying... not so sweet but do it

You'd need to stop putting money into the house coz it's a drain on money and you don't get anything back

Once the bank gets involved, she has an ultimatum I go down you go down too women

This post has been edited by aaronpang: Oct 17 2008, 12:19 PM

You don't actually have to talk to her let the bank do it...

Technically the house doesn't belong to either of you, it's owned by the bank. Let the bank repossess it, just like cars if you fail to pay the car loan the bank will reposes the car to recover the loan amount. Fortunately unlike cars houses don't depreciate

You're a bankrupt if you owe money and the bank has no means to recover the funds like credit cards for example or personal/business loans without collateral.

It's not about trusting girls don't do a joint anything with a guy either

Pay you back the balance