Gurls need talk.
Guys need silence.
That's how Martian and Venuses works

Guys handle things differently from girls and this never can be compared. Both creature works differently.

Just, you cant apply the same solution to a guy and a girl, they work DIFFERENTLY. That is why both party thinks that the other party is hard to catch. It ain't hard if you view other from your own view but try put your legs on other's shoes, what would you do if you are a MAN. Simple to say but tough to do.