it depends on oneself perspective. Most people start loving before even understanding what's love thats why it fails. Some just be in a relationship just for the fun of it. Most relationship are base on feelings not base on brains and feelings.

Why must a relationship be in depression? Why cant people have both feeling of being single and attached? When someone says you have many years ahead its a lie. Blink of an eye ure 10 years can just past and u still dunno what just happen.
Same question again why cant you have good friends and attached? Why must choose 1? So everyone have a different perspective.

Honestly you can only share what you know. You havent been thru a stage that having good friends and have a loyal partner. I been there so i know its always better to have both than 1.
Lastly, There is nothing to expect because of your family background or your friends we only live once we only be young once you choose how you want your life never blame others because you let them choose how they want you to live your life

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Added on October 26, 2008, 4:47 pm
Hope i dont offend anyone here it just sharing my experience.
Friends can even f**k u over like steal your partner? Cheat your money? Get you in alot of trouble? so does a love partner. Its true try meet more people it helps but make sure u choose the right group of friends. Just a mistake friends can get you nowhere TRUST ME I KNOW.

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Added on October 26, 2008, 4:57 pm

they live a happy life because they choose to. I know u have lack of self confidence or guidance by friends to lead u there. I have no plans of marrying until the age of 30. Marry young doesnt mean ure clever or successful its just show ure in love. My moto is to make enough money so when i marry my partner and i can live happily without problems.

Alot of problems can be solve with money not all. When we are young we enjoy than they suffer when they are older. If u suffer when you are young u will enjoy an interesting life when ure older.