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Advice Wanted Age 22 and still single, having monotone life, Big problem or wut

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Kagekiyo
post Oct 4 2008, 06:54 PM

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In the first place, it doesn't seem like you're having any significant problem at all if you could minus out all that self-pity nonsense out of the equation.

On the otherhand, you're in a hell lot better position than others who are less fortunate which doesn't give you the right to procrastinate and delay living life the way you want to.

Wake up, kid. And do something. Because you know you can.
Kagekiyo
post Oct 26 2008, 04:35 PM

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QUOTE(MagicPudding @ Oct 4 2008, 02:42 PM)
I only want to know how many of you already engaged in a relationship at this age of mine ? 22 isn't old but ain't young either, shitty things are going on in my life,  sad.gif

I started to feel bored of staying with parents, my sis already married and my bro is moving to his new house, left me and my parents, they are good but many times I have been thinking, is it now the time I should move out and learn to be independent? I have left the home and stay in university for the first year, after that move back to stay with parents. I don't appreciate much during my 1st year at university which was 4 years ago, that time I was being naive and stupid. Because of the decision to stay at home, I was hard to meet new friends at uni, my class are few in girls, I do not talk well to both guys and girls classmates. Now going to uni is no different than going for a boring office work, the secondary school friends are busy with their careers, relationship and their final year in uni, leaving me alone and lost in my life.

My result isn't good and I have to extend the degree course by 1 year. Expecting a lonely year, sad.gif

What I worrying now isn't how much money I could earn, what my parents have given me made my life comfortable enough. It's whether I will live and die alone if things keep their current way, seeing many blogs and friendsters around, many people at my age are leading a colorful life. Sometimes I think of that I rather be poorer a bit, if that's the price I need to pay in exchange of a unregrettable younger days. This isn't whining, there's many other people are sufferer than mine, I just feel setback at times
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You see, this is exactly why i hate kids like yourself. You whine and whine as though the whole world owes you everything. In addition, when people with more experience bother to pass on some sensible advice, you deflect and turn away.

By claiming that you're not allegedly whining (as i have effortlessly bolded for you) is just plain bull5hit denial. If this isn't sympathy you're seeking for then for god's sake, just remain miserable your whole life - its your life.

To reiterate a valid point, you have everything - education, parents who shelter and love you, siblings who you might not get along well with but nevertheless close to your heart and proper clothes to put on.

And YET, you still complain and whine about how miserable your life is. You're a bloody ingrate which leads me to say that perhaps the extra one year at uni for screwing up would hopefully teach you a thing or two about life as to how to live it to the fullest while you still can at the tender age of 22. That being said, nobody gives a flying f*ck about your results. Either you're too stupid or too stupid to bother putting in effort.

But not doing anything changes nothing. Time could but nothing can unless you take that step yourself.





 

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