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nokia2003
post Sep 30 2008, 06:26 PM

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QUOTE(ore0 @ Sep 30 2008, 01:24 AM)
Hi readers,

this happen quite some time ago. Once, my pms didn't come, so i and my boy went to the clinic to do a check up.
we didn't have intercourse but he accidentally shift abit of his "liquid" to my part when we sorta had foreplay..

That very day, i saw a clinic that belongs to a malay lady doctor. Race will not be an issue here. She was very very very nice n kind. probably the most outgoing n friendliest malay lady doctor i've met.

Her assistant is also a malay lady, quite young. So the doc ask me to do urine sample, n i went to do it lah.... there were alot of patients ,all malay with family (small kids,babies and pregnant mom's) except me n my bf (paiseh).

Anw, while i just came out of toilet and put the jar on the reception table and sat with my bf to wait, the assistant lady call out loud in front of all the patients,

" PREGNANCY TEST! PLS COME THIS WAY!"

Me and my bf look at each other. WTF!!! so damn loud say in front of everyone like this, she stood far from us and did so, while i went to the doctor to tell this matter, she said the lady didnt do it on purpose but i think it was purposely done.

So share any comments or your own story about anything happened like that.

Until today, i'm very very angry with this lady and i dont want to go back to that clinic even though the doctor is very nice. My dignity is damaged in front of other visitors. And im not pregnant.
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Added on September 30, 2008, 6:27 pm
QUOTE(ore0 @ Sep 30 2008, 05:36 PM)
Ok, let me make this clear.

1.) i DID bought the test kit and brought it back home, and TEST IT.

2.) I saw the result, and i'm not satisfied because my PMS haven't come for a long time, so that is WHY i went to the CLINIC.

3.) ALL PATIENT was staring at me with THAT STARE as if i've KILLED someone. If u were me, how would u feel?

4). I'm just sharing my story here, and NO. i'm NOT underage.
yes i know what i did was wrong... but i did not had SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. AND TOPIC INI SUDAH LARI!!!! PLUS, IT WAS ONLY A FOREPLAY. And why is everybody shooting at me? What did i do wrong at everyone?

I was 18 at that time k? and i don't do it anymore.
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post Sep 30 2008, 06:29 PM

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QUOTE(nexous @ Sep 30 2008, 01:07 PM)
you went to the clinic to do a test just because there was semen in your external genitalia?

omg you are really a noob  doh.gif  shakehead.gif

peace  icon_rolleyes.gif
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yes, you are the noob here unfortunately.
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post Sep 30 2008, 06:52 PM

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your terminology is clearly inaccurate.
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post Sep 30 2008, 07:20 PM

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@ ore0


sure thing. whatever that floats your boat.
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post Sep 30 2008, 11:49 PM

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QUOTE(ore0 @ Sep 30 2008, 10:09 PM)
your rabbit is cute biggrin.gif


Added on September 30, 2008, 10:11 pmActually, she did ask her other assistant to go tell that lady off. I would more appreciate if that lady come in n apologize to me face to face. But what to do, she didn't. instead, i dont know where she go hide herself.

After exit the clinic, me and my boy agree dowan go bck there anymore.
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if you think that is cute, you have obviously missed this out

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post Oct 1 2008, 09:46 PM

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@ nexous


be my guest and try it out because i would like to see you proving that fact wrong.
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post Oct 1 2008, 11:15 PM

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@ nexous


we are talking about probabilities here (despite how it low it can get). in a case like this, one is always interested to know whether fertilisation can take place or not. in medicine, things are always measured in rate/percentage of success; miracles or fortunate incidents are not taken into account.


Added on October 1, 2008, 11:48 pmoh man, i do apologise for the late reply to come with a proof. but i did make a research about this when i was in year 3 medicine for an assignment. if only i can still find those articles. sigh...

well, i managed to find some websites, but they are no good as we all know that they are not reliable. hence i'm looking for well documented medical journals.

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QUOTE(nexous @ Oct 2 2008, 09:27 AM)
The nature of it in itself is non-probabilistic and highly deterministic. Defective rubber may get more easily torn and we statistically quantify it from their non-defective counterparts. What about objects falling to gravity? We don't even need to bother with statistics. Given preset conditions, there is no 'other' result. That's the flow of semen and Newtonian mechanics for you.

If you ask me, is it at all possible that semen flows upward and into the uterus? Definitely, given favorable preset conditions (including very unusual body movement and positioning, unusually high sperm vitality outside the uterus, and lack of backflow from the vagina). Will it happen under typical circumstances? Definitely not. The contraceptive pill has a higher likelihood - to fail. AFAIK, the vagina wasn't even designed to retain sperm, secretions will wash them all outside.
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again, we are not arguing exactly how impossible are the chances of fertilisation taking place because at the end of the day, patients are only interested if it is feasible for one to get pregnant (coitus interruptus is usually how this accident might happen). anyhow, i think that we have found our answer for today (as underlined by you above), the pill has a higher likelihood to fail than fertilisation prevention via ejaculation outside or near the vagina (or external genitalia as pointed out by TS).

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post Oct 3 2008, 09:26 AM

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QUOTE(nexous @ Oct 3 2008, 01:15 AM)
Precum (semen) from intercourse aka coitus can result in fertilization since penetration dispenses sperms closer to the cervix.
That's a very different scenario from minute amounts of semen in the external genitalia.

You seem to be talking about "pulling out" while TS said she did not have intercourse. This means, unlike coitus, semen is not delivered near the cervix.

Unless she got fingered (I'm sorry to be so crude), in which case then it is miscommunication as I assume that no intercourse = the vagina has not been breached. But then again I don't believe that fingers are efficient enough to cause pregnancy.

QUOTE("ore0")
Nexous, thanks for those medical education but, to further this prove, pls check out "http://teenwire.com" . They did explain that the girl CAN get pregnant even if the guy did not ejaculate in her but outside of her part.
This is the same thing as the above. The site is talking about coitus interruptus aka pulling out in which precum is usually secreted by the penis INSIDE the vagina. In your situation, there was no intercourse, it is not comparable to what was discussed in your link.
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i was using coitus interruptus because incidents like these do happen when the male counterpart is trying to withdrawal moments before ejaculation, but not swift enough to prevent the semen from coming in contact with a general area of the vagina i.e. labia as a result of the "explosive" nature.

anyway, no point debating as we are not on the same ground basis of discussion to begin with. i'm moving back to my usual spot in the iphone forum and will be leaving this post. hence, i guess you best head back to the kopitiam forum to discuss your typical matters.

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