QUOTE(demonicangel @ Sep 6 2008, 05:15 AM)
I feel free.
There are 2 parties: The Whacker, and The Leaver.
1st NO-NO: Whacker must not whack, whatever reason it is, it's wrong to start a fight. Unable to control your emotion is not a reason, it's an excuse.
Since the Whacker has such an obvious wrongdoing, he doesn't deserve any debate. He is wrong.
Now comes to the 2nd NO-NO: Leaver should not leave. Why?
1) If you sucked and losing the game, deal with it. You don't learn if you leave like that. Grow up and get matured.
2) If you sucked and your team is cursing you, deal with it. Live with the fact that you sucked, else train more, and you don't train yourself how to leave a game just because you sucked. Again, grow up and get matured.
3) You don't care if others pay to play, then you have to accept the fact that others don't care you pay to play too. So who's paying to play is not a reason to argue about.Remember this.
4) I don't agree with some who said that it's just a game, don't be serious. You don't generalize that quote to every game. Unless you're playing against the AI or 'The-Most-Not-Serious-Player-Wins' sort of game, you should be serious. Serious in terms of sportsmanship, not personal. By not having a serious sportsmanship mindset, it's a disrespect to others and a disgrace to yourself. Take an example in a football match, a player can be serious in tackling another player or serious in tackling the ball. It made the difference between getting a successful tackle or getting a red card.
5) If you really have an emergency, which I don't buy it at all because it's the rarest of reason, you've to figured out a way to leave properly, and not just leave like that. Find someone who's standing or not playing around you, kindly ask them to take your place as you've paid for it. I'm sure there is always someone who's willing to play. If he leaves after you, that's another case.
6) And finally, if you are on pre-paid game and your time is almost up, do not, I REPEAT, DO NOT join a multiplayer game. This reflects your ability to think as a matured person and not just some 'ah-who-cares? spoiled kid'. Either you topup your pre-paid to finish a game that you joined, or don't join at all. Do something else. Not realizing about that your time's up means you have time-management issue, it's not a reason, it's an excuse.
Maturity is what separates true-gamers from noob-losers. Not skills, not levels.
I really do not understand your issue with leavers. Sometimes I really do not understand why people want to get on with a game whereby the ending is so predictable. You like winning games 56-8 or something? I mean, you do not get bored pawning those idiots over and over again? Get a life man. You think it is so fun winning against noobs? I do not see the fun in it. In fact when I play, and my team is pawning the other team like mad. Our team do not complain when the other person leave because we understand that there is no point in continuing and we understand how the other person is feeling. Do you think that it is possible to learn much under a being pawned situation? Tell me, if your mother is constantly watching you study, do you think you can learn much? Do you think you can learn much in an environment whereby your mind keeps on telling you you are losing? In adversity, people managed to conquer their failures because they managed to keep their mind of their failure and focus on the positives instead. Do you think it is possible when you are losing in Dota?There are 2 parties: The Whacker, and The Leaver.
1st NO-NO: Whacker must not whack, whatever reason it is, it's wrong to start a fight. Unable to control your emotion is not a reason, it's an excuse.
Since the Whacker has such an obvious wrongdoing, he doesn't deserve any debate. He is wrong.
Now comes to the 2nd NO-NO: Leaver should not leave. Why?
1) If you sucked and losing the game, deal with it. You don't learn if you leave like that. Grow up and get matured.
2) If you sucked and your team is cursing you, deal with it. Live with the fact that you sucked, else train more, and you don't train yourself how to leave a game just because you sucked. Again, grow up and get matured.
3) You don't care if others pay to play, then you have to accept the fact that others don't care you pay to play too. So who's paying to play is not a reason to argue about.Remember this.
4) I don't agree with some who said that it's just a game, don't be serious. You don't generalize that quote to every game. Unless you're playing against the AI or 'The-Most-Not-Serious-Player-Wins' sort of game, you should be serious. Serious in terms of sportsmanship, not personal. By not having a serious sportsmanship mindset, it's a disrespect to others and a disgrace to yourself. Take an example in a football match, a player can be serious in tackling another player or serious in tackling the ball. It made the difference between getting a successful tackle or getting a red card.
5) If you really have an emergency, which I don't buy it at all because it's the rarest of reason, you've to figured out a way to leave properly, and not just leave like that. Find someone who's standing or not playing around you, kindly ask them to take your place as you've paid for it. I'm sure there is always someone who's willing to play. If he leaves after you, that's another case.
6) And finally, if you are on pre-paid game and your time is almost up, do not, I REPEAT, DO NOT join a multiplayer game. This reflects your ability to think as a matured person and not just some 'ah-who-cares? spoiled kid'. Either you topup your pre-paid to finish a game that you joined, or don't join at all. Do something else. Not realizing about that your time's up means you have time-management issue, it's not a reason, it's an excuse.
Maturity is what separates true-gamers from noob-losers. Not skills, not levels.
If a person leave even though the team still have a chance to win, then really that guy should be scolded. But what is the point in being angry with a person if that team is going to lose anyway. You like wasting your time playing meaningless games? You enjoy killing heroes who are just as stupid as AI? If you enjoy so much go and play AI lah.
If someone has an emergency, he should tell the others promptly before he goes. Do you think it is practical to ask someone to take over you? Are you treating someone's emergency lightly? He got a call from his mum. His mum is asking him to go back immediately. So you have a problem with that? You mean he has to continue the game and at the same time worry that he is going to get whack by his mum?
Ok, your last point is probably rite. But the thing is. Who thinks when they go to CCs. Do you know the reason why ppl have prepaid in the first place? It is to control their usage of time and perhaps money but that is out of point. Do you think they actually keep track of their time when they play? Of course they are wrong . You could get work up with them but please also understand from their stand.
Your logic makes no sense at all. I really pity those who agree with you. This shows that they have nothing better to do. I pity even more those who resort to violence. Those are the most empty headed people I ever seen. They are willing to sacrifice their entire life. There is no excuse in that this is just the heat of the moment. If you cannot control yourself you are like animals who should be lock up forever.
Seriously, we pay in CC to enjoy ourself. To have competition with others. We do not pay in CC just for the sake of pawning noobs. There is nothing fantastic in doing that.
You are the one in need of maturity for taking Dota so seriously at a point that other ppl personal life get affected. I know it is not good to leave half way and i do curse when i am at a winning position but if that person tells me a good reason why he left, I will accept it with a heavy heart because i am kind enough to be considerate about other ppl feelings. I am not an idiot who will want to continue playing a 4 vs 5 game like so many of you here.
Added on September 8, 2008, 3:57 pm
QUOTE(holypredator @ Sep 4 2008, 07:54 AM)
As i said ... your term only "certain type of leavers" deserve wacking ... meaning you still support violence .. am i right??? u cant say that you hijack certain type of airplane only and says that your not a terrorist......
Anyway .... Certain type?? Can you explain more in detail which type??? as i mentioned in my earlier post ... No Leaver should get wacked ... no matter what leaver .... My earlier post with enlarge font size already stated What kind of leaver there is .. and also shown neither of any leaver deserve to get wacked....
If... your trying to say those who leave for FUN like CD leaver ... or havent played also leave .... Then It just plain doesnt make sence.......
1) The discussion is Assume leaver that doesnt involve CD leaver [these kind of leaver] ... as commen sence would tell you ... the discussion is about in a Cyber-Cafe ... not battlenet ..... I realy never come across people doing that at a cyber cafe.... in battlenet maybe .... But in cyber cafe... who want to waste money doing that?? theres realy no point in doing that.....
For this case ... if your trying to say he CD leaver /in game leave game...the most commen possibility is
1) The host start game without the usual countdown
2) Maybe he got friend want to join.. but host dont listen and just start game....
I think thats about what we trying to debate right?? because youve never mentioned about the others like insulting and stuff..... its morning 8 am .. and i gtg for work ... HEHE ... come back @ night only chat again...
Yeah agreed. This guy say one thing one moment. The moment he found out that his stance was wrong. He changed his stance again. Some people just never admit their mistakes. And they go around bashing ppl as if they are some angel. Those are the worst kind of people. If a person can stay in a game if they are losing 20-0. I salute him. In fact i did tell my team members one thing before. How come opponent did not leave even though they are losing 20-0. I really respect him man. Seriously. this Quick` guy really has a problem. He implies that he does not have any problem with people using violence just because some rules has been broken. Rules are being made by people. So you do not really have to be so rigid. In fact, if the opponent is losing badly, you should be thankful that he leaves and not continue wasting your time. Really seriously, I do not know how people think nowadays. I really do not understand why people wants to continue in meaningless stuff. This shows the sorry state of most ppl around here.Anyway .... Certain type?? Can you explain more in detail which type??? as i mentioned in my earlier post ... No Leaver should get wacked ... no matter what leaver .... My earlier post with enlarge font size already stated What kind of leaver there is .. and also shown neither of any leaver deserve to get wacked....
If... your trying to say those who leave for FUN like CD leaver ... or havent played also leave .... Then It just plain doesnt make sence.......
1) The discussion is Assume leaver that doesnt involve CD leaver [these kind of leaver] ... as commen sence would tell you ... the discussion is about in a Cyber-Cafe ... not battlenet ..... I realy never come across people doing that at a cyber cafe.... in battlenet maybe .... But in cyber cafe... who want to waste money doing that?? theres realy no point in doing that.....
For this case ... if your trying to say he CD leaver /in game leave game...the most commen possibility is
1) The host start game without the usual countdown
2) Maybe he got friend want to join.. but host dont listen and just start game....
I think thats about what we trying to debate right?? because youve never mentioned about the others like insulting and stuff..... its morning 8 am .. and i gtg for work ... HEHE ... come back @ night only chat again...
This post has been edited by sylar111: Sep 8 2008, 05:02 PM
Sep 8 2008, 03:43 PM

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