hi,

girls..
thanks for reading this..
actually..i'm looking for someone who can solve my problem by giving their opinion..etc..
(but not setting me up on a date)..
ok...
i'm 18 years old..
and can you believe that i'm still single???
all of my friends are starting to have boyfriend but not me..
my bestfriends also lost contact with me already..
they all don't have time for me anymore...they're busying with their boy..
my besties who always there for me..are all gone..
i'm alone now...
with nobody..
i used to have boyfriend last time..(when i was 15..and it's over when i'm 16)
but not anymore..
you know...none of the guys take me seriously..
i mean my classmate(i'm a college student now) don't even show
that they have any feelings on me...
although i have a crush on one of them...
sometimes..when i watch movie..during the kiss scene..
i always wish that i was being kiss by someone who i love..
but nop..it does not happen..
i'm scared of having a boyfriend actually..i'm scared of breaking up
and hurt...
what should i do???

i mention a few time in other threads oredi.

Girls, you dont need a bf to feel complete. be happy with yourself, learn to love yourself first. because if you dont hv confidence in yourself, always put yourself down (kutuk urself) how can u expect someone else to love you?

have ur girlfriends been ditching you for a long time?

if they just only got their bfs, it's understandable that their priorities are abit haywire

but if it's been many months since u last hung out, then those aren't your friends. get new ones.

Don't push your self. Let fate do it's job.

Try to find some activity to do la. . .

Online games? lol

u are still so young..no need to think tooo much about it..who cares if other ppl got bf already but u dont have... SO WHAT? Let it be nautral..don't have to run towards it... U can choose!

U can stay by urself! start pull urself together... Start stand on ur own feet ..don't always rely on friends or companian. I understand that u are lonely but life's like this.. get used to it..try to do other activities that is useful then u will meet more nice friends who are singles... and u got family girl!

Alone is not a bad thing. it helps u to learn and have time to think what u can do.. it will make u more mature. But im sure u are not alone...

This post has been edited by PinkyWhite: Aug 27 2008, 03:06 PM

if u want friend,i can be your friend...

so young.. dun worry so much.,.. sometimes it might take sometime for fate to bring u ur destined one ler... just b ready for it k.. when it comes hold it tightly.. for now i think u better concentrate on ur studies first lor.. tat's ur main priority k. dun worry so much about future.. u still have a long way to go dun rush it.. all da best man

you are only 18..dont worry...you will find someone soon enough...when you start working you will meet even more ppl...
some of my friends are 27 and they ahev never dated...it didnt bother them

about ur loneliness rite.. wat about taking up hobbies o joining some clubs o societies in ur college?? get to know more ppl and at the same time broaden ur circle of frens.. who noes lucky lucky u might find the right one for u.. *wink*

y worry so much..i'm 21 n i'm single...yupp,at 1st u might find that urself is lonely,i am lonely too....but i take some classes n i dun feel lonely...in fact i can learn more things.u feel lonely coz ur mind is too free...go take some classes o join societies might help.dun worry too much.

haha TS i also same like u now......haizzz i juz break up 2 or 3 months back......but everything was fine now feel like lonely too......everytime go out jalan jalan see couple walk by feel like im useless......haizzzz...... so wat we have to do is wait loh let faith do the job loh......

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Aug 27 2008, 05:41 PM

huh 18 only wor?
my gf 26 baru got pak toh...

dun rush urself, choose the best not the choose the only one

aleh..18 only ma..i also 18 baru get my first gf la..those ppl aobve r right. if u feel lonely..go find frens,join some clubs,feel up yr life with social activities la..if u c those couple lovely hugging each other,go back home,hug yr pillow and start to fantasize..

if u cant do all of above, just think..wats the cons of being in relationship..
u have a bf who love u,so wat? when he do sumthing behind yr back and u find out..it hurts dam much!
if he made u jealous..or unintentionally made u jealous,u're the one who's gonna hurt!
if he demand sex from u,and u gave bcoz u love him,who's gonna hurt more huh?

gals are always the side who is easier to get hurt in relationship ok! learn how to protect and prevent yourself from those dangers...

Im 18 and single. Believe it.

So what? its not the end of the day. Go mix with more people, expand your social circle.

You dont need to get married to prove yourself worthy to society.

single, u must carry on ur day...
couple, u gonna carry on ur day too...

nothing different....
juz maybe got people beside u onli....

i'm 22 and single!

not a problem rite?
so don worry about it..
juz let it come by itself...

when are u going to stop using my avatar? =.="""

anyway, im 22 and single and nvr have bf b4.. So What?

Still young girl...
Still got plenty of time...
concentrate on studies 1st..
STUDIES always comes FIRST...

u are still 18, not reaching 30 also
why bother about relationship? i know it will give u some sweet time, but do u know the suffer when your bf cheat against u?
don't rush, let it be

yala....one of my friend break up just after she give her virgin to a stupid guy...wahh really hate that guy coz treat my friend like that...

thanks!!!
you really help me a lot..

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This post has been edited by love me or hate me: Aug 29 2008, 11:34 AM

what you shud you do? stop thinking relationship..simple, n focus on your studies n get to socialise more.
so wats the big fuss?

so ? no big deal. there is ppl who is 40 still single. n ? wat do you want to say?
i enjoy being single; smth wrong? dun like might just get lost lor.there is so much things to do in this world than bs about not having bf.

don't worry...you're only 18. Its not end of the world yet. Its very normal for your girlfriends to focus on their boyfriends. I have lots of college friends disappearing the same way. Why bother about them? Go find more friends! Better ones!!

i see. i didnt know that it is such a torture not to have a bf at the age of 18. i m 24 single, never had a bf before.
i have more things to worried about in my life

Is a sad thing when you had bf/gf .. you 'ill feel that FREEDOM is not same as before .. your mind will totally change trust me ..

I LOVE SINGLE

we girls do not need a bf to continue our journey of life!
we depend on ourselves.
so it is ok to be single.
when your Mr. Right is there, he will be there for you, ALWAYS!

I will be ur friend..
Trap ??

to TS
enjoy your college life or current life, let the fate come, i'm sure Mr.Right will find u 1 day

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Added on August 30, 2008, 1:28 amto TS
enjoy your college life or current life, let the fate come, i'm sure Mr.Right will find u 1 day

This post has been edited by yhtan: Aug 30 2008, 01:28 AM

thanks!!!
you really help me a lot..

overwhelmed or just copy pasta?

I never had any relationship, but that doesn't mean it made me any lesser than other people, it is just a matter of choice and priority and personally, i choose to be single for now, from school and until now, in college

lol alright alright....

haha..me too.. i'm 23 nw n still single.. although desperate to have 1 nw bt sumtimes things won happen as wat u wan.. jz fill urself v other activities..i'm sure u'l get ur mr.right wen d it is d rite time...

actually whats girl think about in their mind? age 15 already got bf? you better grow older to do so unless you're really mature enough to handle your relationship. Dont just give reasons that bf didnt take you serious. They did but you dun feel them. You know how much he misses you when you're not with him? he try to give u calls and sms to keep connecting with each other?

I think when you start working you will know my meaning.

good move

when you are alone you will want bf... when you got bf already sometimes you wish you were alone again... lol

OMG! So true! It seems like you understand girls psychology.

Dear TS, i felt the same like you before.

I used to stuck in a 5 years plus relationship since i am 16. If given a choice again, I wish to be single during those times. You can do alot things u know not just pattoh. Just get yourself out and enjoy. You are still young. Just remember you only young once. Enjoy!

very agree wat u has spoken......some young gal age 17 below they wont noe wat we guys (those who working) mind thinking they dun even giv a damn on it......they wanna do wat they want oni dint think bout us(man/boy)....

i dun think so....not oni guys,gurls also would be the same too.......

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Sep 1 2008, 02:54 AM

being single is good coz u can go out with different guys anytime without being control and you got more choice and made yourself available for guys to chase you.

well you can took part into some activity, maybe after you graduate from secondary school, you might know somebody from college, or your workplace.

Took part into some activity like join LYN gathering

or maybe simply go some social network website and have a look lo . . .

i got a lot of female friends, 19 years old already, still single (no BF yet), and live happily every day (Don ask me for their numbers or MSN)

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Added on September 1, 2008, 12:07 pmthis is nice, agree 100%

take part in healthy activities such as joining clubs in schools or colleges is a very good idea

This post has been edited by jianh: Sep 1 2008, 12:07 PM

Some time alone is good at least no one nagging u always, since now u still a student focus on your study first. No worries u still young, u are just scare the feeling to being alone, no worries, jz fate matters.

you are still young a..no need to bother about it..
hugner for relationship jz like hunger for a job to earn money..
at the starting you feel happy and excited to earn for money..but when times get longer you will beg for holiday to take a break.
get wat i mean?

so...enjoy ur single life while is not too late..hehe

agree ur word jianjie .

i just broke with my bf who together with me 4 years.

he break with me august 1st , he told me he no longer love me not because of other girl

but u know what , i saw my xbf on the hypermarket , he keep on kissing and hugging his current gf .everybody know he separate with me because of 3rd party . Now i know .

see? you really dunno what the guy doing behind your back . so just wait the mr right . no point of rushing find or get one.

This post has been edited by feathersakura: Sep 1 2008, 11:35 PM

hey,we are not lucky
:(

sad to hear that you have such story...but gals often dream for the "1st guy is the last guy i want", but how many guys will want like tat wo? for me...poor me rejected by so many gals before..now oledi have one very good and supportive gf..so appreciate much..hopefully thats it..dun wan tink other liao lo...

but gals..beware..you more rugi side if u din meet the proper person.

true ,
if meet a cheater then girl side very rugi . im been cheat wor .

at 1st very sad of cuz , but now i have to stand up and be more positive , never feel u will lost everything if dun have a bf la . dun have a bf doesn't mean lost everything and can die . just not biasa . Beside we really should trust fate , not urs = not urs ....so no point to feel sad . but thanks for listen to my story .

i understand your feeling..it is good to be optimistic..surely you can live better as you deserve to live for yourself and not for guys..but one thing related to gals is "virginity mind set" of guys...maybe urban gals say..walau dun live in Zaman Logam or wat...but for guys like me from rural area...thats the kind of education we are growing from...no doubt..we(guys) need time to accept lo...

continue to trust yourself..you deserve better as the saying goes..new will never come if old is not going...appreciate wat you have now and you will see who is the one that is meant for you

why dont you all come and console me? (instead of the 18 y/o ts.. 18!!! )

How old r u, virgin?

JonSpark...
i think she is something here...so she need to be console..

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/662928

agree?

i think u dun need love now...
dun worry
one day u can get it...
maybe lebih baik
trust me

My friend gave me this advice.

no offense..but your nickname so funny..

like a fuse kena sai...
or fuse ka na sai.. (hokkien)

Girl, you're just going through a small obstacle in life that's all. Like previous members said, pick a new activity that makes you happy and let yourself loose instead of hiding under the blankets. In no time, I'm sure you'll find the perfect guy XD.

One of my ex broke up with me after a 1 year relationship. The part that hurts the most is that we were quite lovey-dovey and then suddenly he comes telling me that all the time he though he loved me but actually he doesn't D: after 1 year =.=;; Hurts till now and it made me hate the male population for some time. Ah well, still hunting for decent men here XD;;

hi, make more friends. =) mix arnd , ur single. and young. theres a guy for u of course. i mean yr mr right.

No offence taken.
It was intended to be a joke anyway and I guess this is a local joke.

I guess you cant really blame a guy for that for too much, both sexes also have that problem. Think of that if you are in his shoes if you got a bf and you think that you love him and he is the one for you and latter on you feel that you 2 are not compatible for each other, what will you do its not like he did not spend his effort on the relation ship or made use of you. If he did feel for you he should feel the guilt too so please do not be too harsh on him.

I hate love relation ship so much people always get hurt.
So nice to be single.

single is nice...but isnt it selfish too?

love come in a package; you got worry; you got love, you got madness, you got hurt, you got scared; you got attention ..all it goes list on..

but at the end of the day; do you want to be alone forever? I Am Legend

Alone nice ma..
Single ROCKS!!!
but sometimes u will get jealous when ppl at the mall all couple holding hands...
i am jealous rite now!!!!

There are still something call friends and companion at the end of the day couple do get divorce too even though they are married for 30 years.
It wont be as bad as will smith in new york la.

I am so jealous that they do not get the freedom as I get.

i dowan....i dowan...
i am jealous...

I guess girls are more desperate than guys.

some gal yes..
everyday dream for guys like no have guys they will die lo..
haha

b'coz i cant get woth the person i LOVE ma..
so i rather be single...

I wonder why dun they get involve in some activities like what guys do eps those activities that only guys play like futsal or basket ball. Sure can get lots of guys instead of just 1 rite.

So boring always the same guy

i got play bkb...but now seldom ady..coz studying...

but if u love the person u wont feel bored ma..

i only feel scared...

y feel scared leh?

Cos feel bored ma, why feel bored cos feel scared ma.

ok Im spaming here

but I still dun get the I must get a guy part.

dont feel down..its ok to be single ..

i scared he will HURT me again lor...

Study first, then get a job, get married and build a family........

alone got good n bad

but the bad is more than good lor..

dowan to get HURT but really love him o...

y have to sacrifice whole forest for one three wo..
still other good person that deserve for you..
is just the matter that does you listen to wat your heart is saying rather than your mind is controlling

but fall for him alr 1 year...

then use another 3 years to forget him lo..if you never had the idea of forget him come to ur mind....you wont able to pay attention to wat is approaching u.

if i go shopping with you i hold your hand ok? but we are not in relationship..
friends cannot hold hand?

yea; i wonder why people jealous; i go shopping mall is to window shopping; not trying to show off im holding hot chick

you dont get the person you love coz you sit here n online n expect to find one here; virtual never be reality.

studying also can play; why cannot? dont tell me you got poor time management.

Hurt is part of love package; who dont get hurt in love? It come down to how you handle your hurt factor.

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Added on September 3, 2008, 12:01 pmagree; past is past; why look back the mirror when there is more scenery infront

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Sep 3 2008, 12:01 PM

cant forget...
coz same class...
he will sms me n ask y i nv find him....when i ignore him...
how foget like that?

mostly ppl alone punya sure jealous got couples hold hands...

that is ur mindset a...
sms ask you y not find him as a friend..not as an admire la..
control lo...
no need ignore him..just change the way u think of him..

i know is hard...but...u have to try lo...keep convincing urself that he should be treated as friend and no more..

onemore thing la..dun daydream bout u and him.

u love him but you dun find him apa ni?
You dont have to wait for him to make move duh..
If like just ask him out for something.

eh..he got gf ady der lah...
he is working...part time study...

cant find out as friend?
just a small yumcha ..also cannot?

he cannot lor...
we have dinner sometimes after classes at nite...
i think he scared ppl misunderstand kwa....
with this type of situation how to go out?
summore i gal...

walau..that guys is sick la..
got gf..cannot come out..but still sms u and bother why u dun find him..
wat he want le...

sometimes guys also complicated...blur....

that is the problem la

now u understand me...

this is y...how i wanna give up n forget him when he is like that everytime?

mar if i were him; ditch gf

come find me

i dowan find u la
i am so so in love with him...

im every enjoy my single life
plz dun rushing for a new bf,alot guys alot looking for girl,why?becoz we are looking for sex lolz.

hi bachelors! instead of ranting here, y dun all of us so something useful like saving our malaysia by signing the petition on my siggie?

u have all the time in the world anyways!



This post has been edited by tomatotomatomy: Sep 6 2008, 07:58 PM

dowan to get involved with politics.....

Actually it is not a big deal!
i experience it b4! jz the time to change havent reach yet!
So early to start a relationship is not bad but oso not too good! but muz catch it when u r at college!
coz when u start working u will have no time!
then last time me oso like u! but after this, i throw some money to make me look fresh n nice
be more confidence to face all the man!
be the top in ur study, man is nothing in this world!
nothing too woli. like that gambateh lah

but also ma...
haijh....
sad case here....

hmmm i am diff from u.. i got bf but i have no frens.. i duno y? i try to chat with them but later on i will still be alone.. i am same class with my bf now .. but earlier i am at other coll suffering .. i duno y some ppl say bad about their fren in front of me den later still very very fren wit them.. sometimes c them i feel very fake.. ppl will think tat i have bf so no need to fren wit me.. den when got any pro only come find me..

i think single is better got more freedom.. i got frens still also single .. but i feel tat single is better can know more frens n also got more choices ..

no need to worry so much .. alot ppl around us also like tat.. this is called life..