hey girl,
u are still young la.
give urself a time.
friends come and go all the time.
if u need friends,
try socialising with new friends okie?
dont worry, be happy.
there are alot of LYN-ians here who can accompany u.
hehehehehe

Yes! I really agree with u! Girls No Need BF to be complete or happy! Love yourself! Be confident!
Also, my suggestion is, mix around with more ppl ( DOESNT MEANS ASK U GO CLUBBING CAUSE THOSE GUY IN THERE 60% IS NOT SERIOUS ONE)

You can try join those social works, training etc.. =)

haiya. this one easy lah.

get off the internet. get a hobby or do something physical. martial arts or social works or somefink. expand your circle of friends. meet new people, do stuff you havent done before with new friends. like whitewater rafting or go backpacking. if you like to travel, head here www.couchsurfing.com you can meet loadsa new people for travels.

You're still young...let's nature take its course...you don't need to follow the crowd. Enjoy 'single'hood

swt... 18 years only ma. So big deal meh... me 23 oso still single lo..

Erm... Nowadays boys are more on looks than "internal"....no offense.. Just my 2cents

This post has been edited by JeffreyYap: Nov 23 2008, 12:50 PM

nothing big deal... >_>

hey do't worry about that. now u wish to get bf. but that will make u cry. so leave it. go some club do whatever u like. but do't get bf.

bebs,, ur okay, nothing wrong with u..
my oppinion,, tommorow going to spa center,, manicure pedicure, cut a bit ur hair or u can extension ur hair and wearing ur best outfit and choosed one of ur male friends and go on saturday nite.. u must be happy, dont worry... hehe

You know what? Just relax. Be yourself, do yur own things. So what if others got bf. Sometimes when u want sth, u dun get it. BUT when u TOTALLY FORGET ABT IT, then IT WILL COME TO U. This concept applies to the rule of attraction i guess (IMHO). Cuz, when u FORGET ABT GETTING A BF, u will automatically be INDEPENDENT, meaning u can do things on ur own n look confident. Wen u put urself down eg admiring ode couples, wishing u have a bf, then u WUN get a bf cuz ppl can see ur weakness. This is an anti social trait. So, DC ABT HVG A BF, and the BF (whoever it is) will come to YOU.

Well, I can vouch for this cuz I am saying this out of personal experience. when I was in secondary school, i often felt lonely and down cuz it seems all my frens r hvg bfs or hv guys chasing after them, and left me out alone. Finally, in Form 5, I decided to NOT be miserable over this "rltship" thing and jz forget it. If ppl dun like me as gf material fine. I dun care. I jz be myself, i dun hv to rely on some guy to make me happy or feel gd abt myself.

Then sometime after I changed my outlook on life, without my knowing it guys started to fall for me. Quite a few too (one even a total stranger to me! but we were in the same form, another a mere acquaintance among them), and finally one was attracted to me enough to approach me and court me. (At that time I didnt know that i was being courted at ALL, cuz like i said I was NOT BOTHERED abt this rltshp stuff, so I only saw friendliness in guys) Among guys who courted me, I picked my favourite and til today, 3 yrs and nearly one mth, we're still together Oya, I NEVER KNEW that other guys were interested in me until AFTER I was out of Form 5, when ppl told me abt it.

MORAL: Be confident. YOU dun need a bf to make urself happy. U be happy URSELF 1st. Believe me, it's like a whirlwind of romance. Be sure of urself, even wen talking to ur crush. Be open n frenly to evyone.

(p.s. Isit boring to read my long reply? Hehe. Sorry abt it. Ur post struck a chord with me, since I've been in the same situation b4 too. )

You still won't be able to find out who your true friends are when you're only 18.

You still won't be able to find your true love when you're only 18.

Life starts only when you get into the corporate world.

But of course, your younger years will shape you to become the person you will be in the future.

Just concentrate on your studies and be yourself, love yourself. Life will only start much later.

Don't worry about trivial problems like this. Trust me, when you grow older, you have plenty of years and plenty of chance to worry about bigger problems. Enjoy life for now.

Sad, but true.

the easiest solution for you is to PICK MEEEEEEE

IM SINGGLE TOO IM SERIOUS !

This post has been edited by p3tp3t: Jan 16 2009, 04:06 PM

You`re only 18 only, still got time....

I`m workin ady and still never met any girl. (Cons of self employment)

dun worry girl...
you will get someone that love u and give u a deep hug and deep kiss.
Trust me... I m waiting mine too...

Btw, I am a guy..
Have faith on urself

18 only wor.. just the starting point to look out for bf.. dun complaint 1st ler.. he will come sooner one day.. anyhow frens owiz around

Education first la. Guys like smart girls

turning to 22 on May, gonna graduate soon so i won't be thinking of gf thingny first...
concentrate on my future first...if not no money to "yong" loupo.

be patient and wait for the right person to come into your life.

18 years old is really really really very young, why want a boyfriend so early? Should enjoy a few more years of single life, after all guys cannot be trusted (sorry guys,haha) concentrate on studies cause that is what guarantees the rest of your life.

Hey, not all guys cannot be trusted! Just because a few rotten apples, u cannot label all men as untrustworthy