girls out there...do u think if a guy is being too honest to u is a good or bad thing?...n wat to do if u accidentally discover something which u shouldn't have discover and its bothers u like hell? guys advice r welcomed as well....

What do you mean by too honest?

can you answer your own question first?

and what is the something that is so intriguing

well...too honest as in the guy will tell out all abt his past which the girl dun want to know n after he tells out it will bother her mind a lot

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Added on August 14, 2008, 11:34 ami duno wat to answer to myself tats y im asking around...

This post has been edited by eileen7: Aug 14 2008, 11:34 AM

do u mean threesome or gangbang?

If it bothers you, don't ask.

hhmmm...something sensitive....related to the past

im a honest dude also
even my stupid experience pon i story

aiyo..no la....i really dun feel like telling out...but something which its sensitive

What, that he has had sex with multiple partners before? maybe he has murdered a person before? In any case, its his past, why worry so much about it when you have the present and future to think about?

you should be more sincere to your feelings
why need ppls reaction to help? just go with the flow
no need shy ma, u can create another id and no one knows

i know...i normally dun ask...but the thing is i discovered something with proof...i cant just keep quiet

well depends what u are asking for

what did u discover

u saw a lot of used condom in the car or or his room?

im just not peaceful...the thing has been bothering me for the past 1 week...i just cant forget the fact.....

clearly you didnt ask your partner about it.
by right you should ask him.

no la... ...some leftovers of his past..which i didnt expect him to still have it

he play with other girls?

I dun understand....

1st u ask is it good if a guy is too honest, but now u say u found out something with proof...
So did he tell u a secret, or u found out he have sex with other girls?

If u found out proof and u confront him then he admit, u call that honest ?

it must b a gal he likes and he tell u honestly right????

alot of things need to b considered... wat did u discover? he has another gurl? he's gay? he used to b a gurl?
honesty is good. n couples need to be 100% transparent b4 they can proceed further wit their relationship.
if wat he did in t past bothers u, then t only thing u can do is to go bc in time n change it!

i did questioned him...he tried to justify...but i cant accept it...tats y im feeling so upset

some guys like to keep things from past relationship. for mementos probably. don't take it too serious?

U mean u found out he still keeping the sex video with his ex and he admit it?
Or out of sudden he tells u he still keep the sex video?

So u want to ask is it better for a guy to admit he keeping sex video of ex by themself, or its better if u found out urself?

Confront him then.

Come on just tell the whole story..
If he keeps his ex pic and u jeles about that, that is so immature...

i dun get ur meaning, "If u found out proof and u confront him then he admit, u call that honest ?"

well his being honest wif u .. cant u be honest to ur feelings towards him ?

tell t whole story leh.. make it clear to everyone

i did....he tried to justified...but i just cant accept it...n it still bothering me...he made me lose confidence in him

so is this the thing ur upset about?

just tell us that damn story..makes us wondering more n more n u won't get any solution..

You can't accept his honesty or he justification of his actions?

No story No talk

b4 tat...can anyone tell me how to change my ID

i agree!

Y u so afraid to tell?

If he does wrong, he's the guilty one.

everybody must kept their dark past secret....if they not...they are proud with it...and don't think it will never come back or they never will do it again...everything that goes around goes around...

TS is about to tell yet u guys pressurizing
relaks la beb, bertenang

jus say out lah... we r not judging. jus givin advice

type /close [insert your password]

im just worried he or his frens is in this forum as well...dun la scold me

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Added on August 14, 2008, 12:01 pmim just worried he or his frens is in this forum as well...dun la scold me

This post has been edited by eileen7: Aug 14 2008, 12:01 PM

not scolding... jus waiting too long for t story......

Like i've said...

Why u afraid if he is the guilty person?

Nothing wrong about asking for advise

This post has been edited by WaCKy-Angel: Aug 14 2008, 12:02 PM

... bring it up to him and talk about it.

huh? i dun get u..whr to type tat

Don't tell if you feel uncomfortable telling but also don't expect a good answer because none of the people here have a clue of what you are describing. Its like throwing a "good advice" book at you and ask you to go through the entire book and hopefully it contains a solution to your problem.

"Patience is a virtue"

TS you can tell your story when you are ready.

Suspense is building.

*munching popcorns* crunch crunch crunch

@ts...
just tell us ur problem...no one know ur true identity so dun worry wor...

This post has been edited by yukiz: Aug 14 2008, 12:07 PM

n time is money..... being patient = wasting time
wasting time = wasting money

patience = waste of money n time

crunch crunch crunch

did she personally ask you to help?
if its a waste of time should you be doing something else?
need me to tell you meh?
meh?
mehhhh?

This post has been edited by [W]ee[D]: Aug 14 2008, 12:10 PM

popcorn finishing lah.. dun eat so fast!

FLAME WARS?

WHY SO SERIOUS?

[size=7]
what's leftover wor..food?size]

This post has been edited by RoxyGal: Aug 14 2008, 12:15 PM

those tat watchin t show sure very excited....

cannot meh?
meh??
mehhh?

y r u all like hungry ghost chasing for answers.. wat la Ts needs courage n time to tell the truth

Yuck.....there goes my appetite

ok TS ran away, rejoice

1. honest is good but if he admit to all sort of "nasties" ask why is he telling you that? to gain your confidence in him? keeper of his secrets? a fellow "conspirator"?

2. if you discover something accidentally, keep it to yourself. if it bothers you that much ignore it or confront him with it. consider the possible consequences.

Show's finished, shoo shoo

/close [password]

I guess she found out her bf hiding some secret, like buayaing outside and her bf says "its normal for guys to do tat wat"...
So she is now confused whether its normal, or whether normal means its ok to do that.

if u so serious, then............
lets put a smile on tat face

haha... TS disappeared already......

come , cutiepooh belanja ice-cream

This post has been edited by [W]ee[D]: Aug 14 2008, 12:14 PM

let we guess who are the real you...suiteng? LoveMeNot? sorry no offence

we're not chasin for answers.... imagine this

me: i need advice

u: wat advice?

me: something happened

u: wat happened?

me: i found out something

u: wat u found out?

me it bothers me

u: wat bothers u?

me: t thing happened

u: wat's t thing tat happened?

me: i found out something........

im still here...n wat is TS?

Thread Starter = person who created this thread = u

i oso don't know i think Too Stupid..maybe

u: wat's t thing tat u found out

me : something tat i shudn't have found out

u:

ai yoyo.... haiz... she is confusing now i understand.... guys love to buaya wat to do... then do v gal need to give so much trusts????

this one purposely API API

its Thread Starter, it means you dear

excuse me! i know more gurl tat buaya than guys ok!

yaya i know.. but mayb our wonders have frightening her jor

Buaya you buaya me, aha..... There is nothing we can do.

bring out 7chai batang ria

Well...what many ppl does doesnt mean its correct.
If u not confortable with ur bf tat likes to buaya, go find one that doesnt buaya.

agree

hey ppl..im goin for lunch with colleagues now...will be back after 1 hour...anyway appreciate all of ur advices

Is he gay?

hahaha.. u r such a good guesstimate ..

wheres my ice-cream cutie =(

sad to say tat i make a gurl buaya b4.. then i take steal her from other guy... but she too hot to jus let go to other guy tat didn;t appreciate her.. so, wat u can't take care of will be taken care of by others.

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Added on August 14, 2008, 12:27 pmi also wanna go lunch wit batman.... later can flame more....

This post has been edited by demonicle: Aug 14 2008, 12:27 PM

i tink i taw a putty tat. i did!! i did!!!
aba di aba di tats all folks.

but seriously, i get it - trying to hit the "jackpot" is less fun.

advice which one?...soon after you going lunch suiteng comes in...is it possible...or coincident

hmm, what a coincidence.

/munch munch munch

I dun think nenkuteng has bf....she has gf

who is nenkuteng???

no offence

ur ice-cream cutie sit bhind u jor

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