not wanting him to pay me any after dating with him. All i want is to see him more often....

I ever heard someone says this: do not look at how much the guy spends for you, rather look at how much percentage of his salary he is willing to spend. An RM3k salary bf spends RM1k for gf compares with an RM10k salary bf spends RM1k, which loves you deeper?

I won't and will never ask my bf to spend money for luxury for me, if he really buys something expensive and splendid for me, I will be very touched...; I don't mind go mamak or just go to somewhere else eg. a park, beach side etc...All I want is just to spend my time with him, just to be with him.

I'm not sure if you have got my point wrongly but I would like to do a simple clarification here.

A man who willingly spend money for me doesn't mean I will eventually accept it and spend the money for myself;
I will definitely allow sexual activity to my man when both of us are committed and married.

That's all I want to tell.