i prefer to buy things as of when i feel like it. =P when i get pressured to buy things i end up not buying anything. haha. but i do pay for everything. food, movies, car, etc etc etc, doing it out of free will coz i am earning a lot more than she is. i always encourage her to save more then she can be more independent. had this girl i went out with.. i totally ignored her after 1 week. in the morning went breakfast i had important call.. she couldn't even pay for my food when it arrived as i was occupied. she just poke me and point at the guy that served the food.. zzzzzzz that really pisses me off. i dont mind paying for normal girl friends when going out for drinks or lunch etc. it's just that i feel more gentleman if i did it. but if the girl insists on AA or buying me a drink or meal then i'll make sure i'll buy her back. more comfortable and mutual understanding.

oh and i dun let gf know how much i am earning exactly so that she wont take me for granted. =)