It's all give and take la... I normally let the guy pay for first date. If we happens to have more dates, then everything can take turns/sharing. Like I pay for movie, he'll pay for food. I don't mind paying a part also in everything.

I m agreed with you. I have a girl friend who totally depends on her bf. We all study far away from house.
Her bf is my classmate. The girl happened to be my housemate. So we all hang out as a group quite often. Etc, weekend or weekly cinema day.

From what I can see, her three meals a day, tanggung by the bf, her weekend household expenses tanggung by bf, her transport tanggung by bf. If we planned for weekend to drive up to Penang, he would pay for her part too. Like we spend 1k 5 ppl for the weekend, then divide by 5 ppl, but he has to pay for 2 ppl.

And she give a list to him what she wants on her birthday, valentine, anniversary etc. To tell you the gifts she asked for not so cheap for students like us. Whole set of facial care product which cost nearly 1k for valentine? OMG.

Sometimes really envy her when the bf buy this n that for her. The only she paid for herself from the money her parents gave is her rent RM210/month + her own shopping for heels & clothes.

Since me n the bf are classmates, me n him often have lunch together after classes, so I observed his spending on own food like so kedekut. And he will complained bout the food price getting expensive. I once asked him how much you spend on your FOOD only/month. He said nearly RM500 for 3 meals a day. Then I dengan tak malu also asked how much you spent on her FOOD, he said, same as his. Sometimes, I saw him borrow some money from his close fren. I very2 pity him. Dont know how to make money yet but already pay monthly expense for the "wife".

Among the guy's closest friends, they all think she's so cheap.

So back to the topic question... some ppl willing to share... but some take the advantage to the max to have their finance completely taken care of.

Well my friends ON for 2 yrs + ady. We assumed she will stick to him. Coz of financial security he can provide her.

She's from normal family while he from real rich business based family. And he's the only son. And the fact he believe he found what he always want in a girl. He can always be an engineer while at the same time business is running for him.

Yea, you are right. Haha. Maybe he's a lil bit stupid. But we all do silly things when we are in love, aren't we?

Haha, not me of coz... Me and bf far away due to job + studies. Envy tho, seeing ppl's lover so near and protective. LOL.

Yea, girls normally do silly things... But guys too in my opinion. I've seen some.

far as in diff country?

Theoretically, yea, if it happens to you, sure you will leave the girl. That's what you think. But it might be diff when it really happens to you. You know there is some time you ll be blind in love, if u get what i mean.

And plus the fact that she's really beautiful like a goddess and the perfect body she owns.

agreed, i appreciate privacy very very much. i prefer to have own room. However diff country is too much >.<

This post has been edited by Emily Yee: Apr 30 2009, 09:37 AM

never try before XD
but he ever paid for my inner wear.

Well then my fren sure love his gf very much... XD seems he spent 50% of his monthly allowance on her.