everything! including my sanitary pads!

me too!!
i think its normals nowadays..
hahaha

never try before XD
but he ever paid for my inner wear.

Since he always say there is no need to be shy and i can ask anything for what i want.
I dun force but i`ll still ask if i can have that anot first.
But he never say no..
He`ll only say no until he had no money in his wallet =X
But it doesnt matter hu spend the money first or not..
coz he always say his money is my money lol.

if the guy can afford it ... why not ....

but if the guy is like what emily said .... i feel sorry for him ..

spend on the girl so much , but so kiam siap on himself ..

=X

Majority girls hope bf will pay all! If affordable why not.....

But bit weird for me.....I like paying myself when buying my own stuff though bf insisted.
Paying my own makes me happier
Using bf's money not so happy ga, y shd we ask them 2pay when v afford so.

I dont like myself as spoilt brat using man's money unless they insisted
Some ppl thinks it's stupid....maybe...

Anyway, lucky for all of u that have supportive & lovely bf.
It's not the money that makes u lucky but the man that's with u makes u lucky & fortunate

How Lucky Your Bf Is...

This post has been edited by limshenghong: May 4 2009, 03:06 AM

I ever heard someone says this: do not look at how much the guy spends for you, rather look at how much percentage of his salary he is willing to spend. An RM3k salary bf spends RM1k for gf compares with an RM10k salary bf spends RM1k, which loves you deeper?

I won't and will never ask my bf to spend money for luxury for me, if he really buys something expensive and splendid for me, I will be very touched...; I don't mind go mamak or just go to somewhere else eg. a park, beach side etc...All I want is just to spend my time with him, just to be with him.

Well then my fren sure love his gf very much... XD seems he spent 50% of his monthly allowance on her.

ok la if 50% monthly pay then your friend jialat oredi...his gf should give him back 50% services...

Here goes,

I was with my ex for 5 years. We usually take turns to pay be it for meals, movies, etc.

I will always make sure I pay for the more expensive bill when we go out. I'll be paying for dinner and she'll pay for movies. She's making around RM3K a month and I'm making 3 times of that. We don't spend lavishly because we are saving to get married.

After we've broke up, I've been going out with a few girls. Now I spend like crazy. Buying diamond and crystals just because I feel like it and recently I spent a lot for a 9 days holiday trip to New Zealand. She only paid about RM2500 and the rest is on me.

I guess there are 3 reasons to it:-

1) The girls I go out don't make as much as my ex
2) I used to save with a goal, now I don't have a motivation to save so I spend like mad.
3) It's the devil inside me coaxing me to spend lavishly so that my ex will regret breaking up with me.

I'm writing all these is to slap myself and to stop what I'm doing.

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Added on May 8, 2009, 2:19 pmYeap, obviously I'm a tarp.

This post has been edited by bysquashy: May 8 2009, 02:19 PM

If a girl is goint to use that excuse how much a guy spend on a girl is how deep a guy loves her than I'm going to use the same excuse on her.

How much a girl loves a guy is how much a girl will allow sexual activity between them.

A girl using that statement is digging her own grave. The statement is so easily countered.

I'm not sure if you have got my point wrongly but I would like to do a simple clarification here.

A man who willingly spend money for me doesn't mean I will eventually accept it and spend the money for myself;
I will definitely allow sexual activity to my man when both of us are committed and married.

That's all I want to tell.

well, my husband was a stupid silly guy whom u all talked about.. his previous 2 ex-gfs..

the 1st one, she did pay her own stuff with her credit card BUT end of the day, she'd ask him to pay for it.. she has a car but he's paying the monthly installments AND petrol.. he stayed with her n her parents.. hence no need to pay rental but he paid for her food when they go out.. when he bought his own condo, she was damn pissed off coz he didn't put her name as well.. so i asked him why not.. he said she's not his wife..

that time he was like earning less than rm2k per month

2nd ex gf.. he gave her a supplementary credit card.. i don't know how much she used or maybe she didn't use at all.. she quit her job later complaining about the pressure and she didn't want to look for another job.. she just stayed at home.. he had to pay everything.. food, phone bills and etc.. he got fed up n eventually dumped her..

when i met my husband n during our dating time, he paid for everything.. he said he wants to take care of me.. that's sweet and now we're married, of course he pays everything since i'm not working BUT i do my part.. he work n i take care of the house.. make sure it's clean, make sure i pay the bills and etc.. i also start to learn to cook so that i can cook for him..

for special occasions, he'd ask me what i want.. he'd tell me his budget so i'd tell him what i want.. some times he'd give me surprises as well.. yeah, he does buy me all the branded stuff n me in return will buy him some ralph lauren, lacoste, braun buffel with my ang pow money.. BUT then i'd get some 'scolding' from him for spending so much money just for a shirt

as for my previous bfs, most of them they don't spend on me.. we pay our meals ourselves.. only my last ex bf, spend on me.. he pays for food, movies, pressies n etc.. but of course clothes i'd buy it myself.. the most expensive thing which i got from him was a swatch watch for valentine's day which i still have it

This post has been edited by nicole_nic81: May 8 2009, 05:30 PM

we're in a modern world now. not necessary all guys need to pay for their girl's expenses.. especially when both couple are of the same age. if both are studying, and don't have earnings.. then we need to be reasonable, don need for him to pay all ma.. beginning of a date might be a different though!
don't u all feel that beginning of a date is soO important, it literally affects the whole relationship for long?

I prefer going out if 1 dat pays for his or her portion or buys his or her stuff cause if she/he gt the habit of wanting stuff sure next time love you for money not pure love 1

waaa so nice everything also pay for you O_O

my case, we're both stil students.
he'll buy gifts for special occasions like anniversary, vday, and etc
but normal dates will split the bills ^^"
besides those, maybe if he get the movie tickets then i'll pay for the snacks and drinks and stuff like that.

sometimes when i really want something but tak sanggup spend that much he'll offer to pay a fraction of it >W<~!

i will not let my bf to pay anything that relates to my shopping...except entertainment but sometimes i pay 1, he pay 1...(e.g. movies, eatting) the rest all i pay myself...

he works also coz of money..so i dowan2 burden him..its not good using bf money..try to be independent...

This post has been edited by yeelin04: Jun 27 2009, 05:04 PM

ic...........no wonder u paid for the meal that u had with your EX- bf along with your malay girl friend in jusco. i know what you did!

cloth n those branded stuff i dont pay lol ..
food n movies n entertainment still ok ..