No lor.. Spanar is wrong..
This is fact.. it's not a grey topic also...

Ask yourself, will u teach your son how to spanar other girls?

Have you ever been in a situation where you just know the other person is made for you, and she feels the same?
It is a grey area init? Ppl fall in love and fall out of love all the time.

All is fair in love and war.

If that girl come to you... that is not spanar already lar...

Try to differentiate lar...

If I do not purposely jeopardise the relationship and just treat her nice, how is that spanar?

Its not like everyday i go tell her dump her bf. So it depends on what someone does to call it spanar ma.

If he deliberately tries to break the relationship, then of course its wrong. It all depends on one action.

Well, even if the missus did have feelings for me, i did have to take the initiative to make my moves on her, no?
To some, that is a 'spannar action' init?

Which is why this is such a gray area eh?

Correct lar

But u think with Malaysian mentality, everyone will think u are trying to spanar. Correct?

Lol thats why i say its a gray area lor coz it depends on how others view your action ma.

I always believe that if you lose someone to another person, the first thing you should do is reflect what you have done wrong.

This post has been edited by zio: Aug 1 2008, 02:23 PM

If the girl have feelings for you and she's single and you make your move, that is courting.

If the girl have feelings for you but she's in relationship, and she never expressed to you, you make your move = spanar.

If the girl have feelings for you but she's in relationship, and she have expressed to you, you make your move = not spanar.

Lao.. u said u in relationship 6 years... like that also cannot differentiate...

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Added on August 1, 2008, 2:22 pmdey bro, u cakap apa..

This post has been edited by temptation1314: Aug 1 2008, 02:22 PM

What if she is afraid to express to you?!?! She might feel guilty of expressing it since she is a relationship ma.

Anyway you feel strongly about spanar, I feel there is nothing wrong with it. If you can't keep your own gf, means you got problem lah.

And if you have done your best, and she still leaves, means not meant to be lah.

Edited initial post to correct my mistake

This post has been edited by zio: Aug 1 2008, 02:23 PM

This is 2nd time jor

I said I didn't worry about my relationship also... If my gf love me, no matter who spanar, she will never leave me.. as simple as that.

I just want to mention

SPANAR is not a GOOD Ethic to begin with.
Lao... later u got son and daughter, I teach them how to spanar lar.. FOC also.. how? I said that because you said nothing wrong with spanaring other.

Then i hired another guy to spanar your wife. How was it? Nice?

You talk also contradicting urself one...

What is spanar? Define spanar?

As I said, if you deliberately go out to encourage someone to break up with another, its wrong.

I can teach my son/ daughter to just treat people nice, and if that person falls in love with them, then good lah. But you said Malaysians define this as spanar. I don't.

My wife? You can ask the guy to give his best shot I can assure you that nothing will happen. Well, she is not my wife lah, just my fiancee but all the same

I have never contradicted myself, the point of contention is what sort of action do you consider as spanar?

D i u, you blind one... Cannot blame

2nd, you dunno what is ethic.

3rd, check the bolded sentence. This is not spanar.

4th, before u said further more, dun go against your own word

P/S : Previous contradicting u edit liao... So forget about it.

to quote some other clown, don't du lan, don't du lan.
i am out of mr thinner. anyone wants to meet up at AF?

AF is end of the world.

And last of the topic i just want to said.

Spanar is wrong. But someone keep on saying spanar is nothing wrong.

Yalar.. people with no ethic one of course think like that lar...

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