abit of both is good to keep u in the line. like me,hafta be back home by midnite,yea..sometimes i feel unfair cos my sister can roam freely,my parents dont even care if she doesnt comes back. but midnite is midnite, but sometimes i noti2 extend to 1230,max 1245,hehehe. this actually shows tat my parents care for my safety, with so many cases nowadays.

other than parents/guardians, no one has the rite to control u.