white can go along with all kind of colors.

if you are brave and smuggy type, I'd suggest very flashy colors like Orange, Red, or Green. (Volk TE37 or SSR Type C)

if you are more likely to be the cool side and play low and discreet, take black or dark grey rims and choose something that has multi-spokes like SSR Type F, or BBS CH or HRE P40.
bengkok or not is subjective. If you are the silly type of driver who always ride road humps and potholes like they arent there, then possiblity of you damage your rims are high.
One tip, use 60 and above series tyres to preserve your rims. But its gonna look ugly.

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