first , the third party can be any person close to them , 2nd , if got arguement means they are having discussion , isnt it better ? arguements sometimes is usefull if doing it in the correct mannar. 3rd wife vulnerable to sabo ? i tot all person in company also same ? 4th cheaper car or lying low isnt very much of an issue if both of them are going for higher goals ...better life . *man... u sure packed a lot of questions into one... *
true , topic may change , but is irrelevant to serious matters oledi .. conversation between two must be a mix of friendly , casual and serious stuff ... if one whole day u want me to talk craps i rather keep my mouth shut.
2nd, secretary understands the boss , true , but isnt the wife can do better >? i am not saying tat wife must be the secreatary laa , juz tat in the initial case , if man owns a company , why cant the wife be the second-in-command?

wow,,,,
got a feeling like peinsama aka osama dy...   jkjk laa peinsama jgn marah ya....  

@@ you guys great at fantasizing...

jk

*runs*

1 less ji mui today
ppl busy with work lar you never sayng pun
fat chance
p/s: nobody have a good reason for cheating in a relationship... dun say guys are born to cheat it's lame... really really lame

Okok

*pats and sayang rourou*

now be good and work harder, your boss will love u moar

family companies is a no no if he brings his wife in he can't just give her a simple administrative job with no "power" sure got "power" one...... and she may not be qualified for hte position.... which will in turn cause more troubles and headache than it's worth it. 

1 thing for women even after marriage, don't stop working... if your husband is wealthy enough, then do charity work.. but don't distance yourself from society.  once you do, there's a bigger gap between you and hubby and very fast become wong min poh

i dun need him to love me... only need him to pay me more

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Added on July 7, 2008, 2:50 pmAOD obviously never worked in a company where the boss wife is the admin manager, cousin is accounts manager and nephew is the sales manager.... i had... and it's a nightmare!!!

i dun need him to love me... only need him to pay me more

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Added on July 7, 2008, 2:50 pmAOD obviously never worked in a company where the boss wife is the admin manager, cousin is accounts manager and nephew is the sales manager.... i had... and it's a nightmare!!!

Seduce the boss wife..... if i am a guy....

Seduce the boss if i am a gal.........

Ask another 2 ji mui.. seduce the cousin....

Seduce the boss wife..... if i am a guy....

Seduce the boss if i am a gal.........

Ask another 2 ji mui.. seduce the cousin....

hobbes, where's my platinum card??  

true also hor.. later i go make him coffee

my ex-company... they don't quarrel or anything like that, but staffs just can't advance in the company.  and you can't have a different opinion cause they will surely back each other up.  worse, all the good stuff they get... the jialat ones give to others to do.  in the end, it's the business that suffers.

family companies is a no no if he brings his wife in he can't just give her a simple administrative job with no "power" sure got "power" one...... and she may not be qualified for hte position.... which will in turn cause more troubles and headache than it's worth it. 

1 thing for women even after marriage, don't stop working... if your husband is wealthy enough, then do charity work.. but don't distance yourself from society.  once you do, there's a bigger gap between you and hubby and very fast become wong min poh

i dun need him to love me... only need him to pay me more

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Added on July 7, 2008, 2:50 pmAOD obviously never worked in a company where the boss wife is the admin manager, cousin is accounts manager and nephew is the sales manager.... i had... and it's a nightmare!!!

true , topic may change , but is irrelevant to serious matters oledi .. conversation between two must be a mix of friendly , casual and serious stuff ... if one whole day u want me to talk craps i rather keep my mouth shut.
2nd, secretary understands the boss , true , but isnt the wife can do better >? i am not saying tat wife must be the secreatary laa , juz tat in the initial case , if man owns a company , why cant the wife be the second-in-command?

wow,,,,
got a feeling like peinsama aka osama dy...   jkjk laa peinsama jgn marah ya....  

AoD this is prove that u are vulnerable if u get ur family members into business
If u must, at least dont admit they are ur members, u get less trouble

ypu , agree to it.... wife shoudnt stop working once married ,
yup , i agree to this ,,,
hey wait ,,, i doesnt meant all family members come in laa ....
juz a wife who knows the company well ,,,
not all family members taking up key posts laa ,, sure havoc one...
a wife may not even need to make discussions abt the company but make sure the whole company know her laa , jgn until the boss making out with the secretary the whole company knows only wife dunno .
all those underbelts thingy is oledi a norm , no point hiding .
cant manage to answer all ,,, unless i go make a list...

in my wallet
mau?
come get it

wahh this rourou really realistic

you'll never know, between them aso got politics its just that i was never reavealed

worst of all, more talented ppl kenot sit on that appropriate place
the boss is managing the business like a family instead in a busines point of view

ypu , agree to it.... wife shoudnt stop working once married ,
yup , i agree to this ,,,
hey wait ,,, i doesnt meant all family members come in laa ....
juz a wife who knows the company well ,,,
not all family members taking up key posts laa ,, sure havoc one...
a wife may not even need to make discussions abt the company but make sure the whole company know her laa , jgn until the boss making out with the secretary the whole company knows only wife dunno .
all those underbelts thingy is oledi a norm , no point hiding .
cant manage to answer all ,,, unless i go make a list...

okay, thats the point i wanted to point out. Why the man have to discuss serious matter with the wife ?

Let just say the wife is just a housewife, she know zero about business, but doesnt means she cant made her husband feel better.

As a man, I dun wish my wife face the same type of problem like me. Then I will talk to her like "honey, nowdays I face alot of stress at work."

So maybe she can console me in respons ? say like gimme a massage and say something really sweet to boost up my spirit. I dun need her to give me solution.

Consider that as a simple act, but then wouldnt it be very nice if a person can cheer me up at home ?

that's why a lot of ppl are not willing to work with their own parent's even they own their own company..
it's good to work outside to gain more exprience before you officially get into family business...
it's tougher to gain recognition coz everyone assume that u got the position easily

you're back??? when do you want to meet up?? :P

of course lar.. dun talk gold with your boss talk heart meh ;x

my boss was the cousin to the big boss... ai.... when got problem that time ar... complain until the MD (old old man) there   very luan
haha wife can always make herself "visible" in the office mar.  like my boss wife always call me to do stuff / chat... she's got lots of friends in the office also... attends the office functions, and knows many of the staffs

you're back??? when do you want to meet up?? :P

of course lar.. dun talk gold with your boss talk heart meh ;x

my boss was the cousin to the big boss... ai.... when got problem that time ar... complain until the MD (old old man) there   very luan
haha wife can always make herself "visible" in the office mar.  like my boss wife always call me to do stuff / chat... she's got lots of friends in the office also... attends the office functions, and knows many of the staffs

And u certainly dont want to bring home ur stress to ur wife
if both works in the same company, go back both aso brings the stress of the work home both aso sour face
and then arguements sparks easily
and wat about the kids?
yes
even if u officially go into family business just go in as any ordinary people do
that will save them alot of trouble

finally , i found this to explain my point liao .... phew....

that 1 i dunno, dun label me as a big man or whatever. If can I just wanna give my wife a best enviroment.

u dont want me back?

can talk heart first oni talk gold
then u will dig moar gold from him

imagine its husband and wife, when argue the whole office knows
pai seh sial, and the wife digs the husbands history and the husband digs the wife history

nobody in company gona respect them
yes as a PR to show face in functions and stuff like that is ok
but directly as a second man in command is a big NO

finally , i found this to explain my point liao .... phew....

finally , i found this to explain my point liao .... phew....

who does not want to
but it seems harder by the day