i heard a story b4, it says a guy who got a wife and a son.

eventually the guy go success in his business, but success behind, it comes with some problem.

The guy go home very late, sometimes never go home. And the shirt have the lipstick stains, obviously the guy is went out rolling.

Then, stand on the wife shoes. What would you do ?

lol, thats if the wife know business. If the wife know zero abour business ? 

then u obviously violated unwriten rules of business no1
never involve your family in any business dealings if you can

ok lar, u are refering to personal-family business.

what if the business involve alot of money and there got alot of shareholder ?

someone tok wif me pls.. growing fungus..

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hi 2cm im jantan

okay then. 

so the stories goes after the wife found out the husband got woman outside. But then she choose not to confront, so 1 day she left home with her son and left a letter. After the guy read the letter he cry like no fella business, then after a week he find her wife and got no news, when the time he wanna give up, his wife come back. Then only he confess all the wrong he did. So the story end with the son get hug by the parents.

actually i see the story there are few value.

- Most of the man are born to be cheater, be it come from self willing or influence.
- Most of their wife will angry and choose to confront, and it leads the guy trying to cover.
- And when the guys trying to cover, it create more lies.
- So when the wife trying to know the truth, she will start controlling or hired private detective.
- Eventually the truth had reveal, the guy feel like no face and call for divorce.

Then I would say, there is no need to confront or control, like the wife in the story above. She understand her husband very well, so she use the right tactics, I would say nowdays alot of divorce case happen because both party doesnt really know each other, when they really foudn out then only "ohhh...u are like that 1." So ? divorce lor. lol 

Man actually very simple, if the wife hit on the right spot they will confess all their sin. They try to cover is prolly because the wife dunno how to hand le just know how to confront. So I would say sometimes husband and wife got reponsible on this kind of matter.

she can be some one u confide with after work not necesarily in the office as u do
hi penny

then comes more problems, what if he needs a third party opinion, ppl says third party can see the picture clearer from the other side, what if they constantly argues as man and women have different opinion in work, what if she is vulnerable to sabotage, what if the husband has got to lay low in business as in using a cheaper car and stuff like that, wouldnt it be nicer if he can lay low in office while his wife having all the luxury and comfort at home?

I would say is based on different person expectation.

If the man is understanding, he may talk in topic which is both interest, rather than living in his own world. And of course, secretary are suppose to be understand boss. Why ? cause she is paid to do so.

family companies is a no no if he brings his wife in he can't just give her a simple administrative job with no "power" sure got "power" one...... and she may not be qualified for hte position.... which will in turn cause more troubles and headache than it's worth it. 

1 thing for women even after marriage, don't stop working... if your husband is wealthy enough, then do charity work.. but don't distance yourself from society.  once you do, there's a bigger gap between you and hubby and very fast become wong min poh

i dun need him to love me... only need him to pay me more

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Added on July 7, 2008, 2:50 pmAOD obviously never worked in a company where the boss wife is the admin manager, cousin is accounts manager and nephew is the sales manager.... i had... and it's a nightmare!!!

you're back??? when do you want to meet up?? :P

of course lar.. dun talk gold with your boss talk heart meh ;x

my boss was the cousin to the big boss... ai.... when got problem that time ar... complain until the MD (old old man) there   very luan
haha wife can always make herself "visible" in the office mar.  like my boss wife always call me to do stuff / chat... she's got lots of friends in the office also... attends the office functions, and knows many of the staffs

of course i want you back

no need to talk heart with him talk gold can liao if not work for wad

yeah that happened before... wife angry with husband whole office also know hehe
i am the cacing in your stomach

wah have to differentiate until lidat?
then ur bf very the kesian

yeap thats aso one of the disadvantage when u involve ur wife into business
it gets too personal and not comfortable for others
okok
from now on i dont take zentell ok?

dats what i'm doing
i hope he stops persisting lol

waa stalker!
kick his balls! =X

of course lar.. you pecah his ball mar... of course need to give him something "unbreakable"!!

i'm smiling here imagining two ostrich eggs in his pants