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7chai
post Jul 7 2008, 01:45 PM

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QUOTE(AngelOfDestruction @ Jul 7 2008, 01:36 PM)
consider himself lucky...
but if the wife got no where to go ,,, she has to come back...

tats y many men exploit this fact and go out nakal nakal .... vmad.gif  vmad.gif
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actually i see the story there are few value.

- Most of the man are born to be cheater, be it come from self willing or influence.
- Most of their wife will angry and choose to confront, and it leads the guy trying to cover.
- And when the guys trying to cover, it create more lies.
- So when the wife trying to know the truth, she will start controlling or hired private detective.
- Eventually the truth had reveal, the guy feel like no face and call for divorce.

Then I would say, there is no need to confront or control, like the wife in the story above. She understand her husband very well, so she use the right tactics, I would say nowdays alot of divorce case happen because both party doesnt really know each other, when they really foudn out then only "ohhh...u are like that 1." So ? divorce lor. lol laugh.gif

Man actually very simple, if the wife hit on the right spot they will confess all their sin. They try to cover is prolly because the wife dunno how to hand le just know how to confront. So I would say sometimes husband and wife got reponsible on this kind of matter.
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post Jul 7 2008, 02:02 PM

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thats why, sometimes some new trick can twist the situation around.

the man did wrong, wife know. if the wife can forgive then is the best. Of course the man also dun got out roll again lar
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post Jul 7 2008, 02:28 PM

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QUOTE(AngelOfDestruction @ Jul 7 2008, 02:09 PM)
here comes another problem ,,
wat if the wife is a housewife ?
when the man comes home and wanna talk with his wife , he finds that his wife doesnt understand a single thing he says , all his wife knows abt is the drama series , wat happend to neighbour laa , frens laa , cos both their life is totally from different worlds.
And the next day , he finds that his secretary understands him well than his own wife..

tats why i hope my wife will has her own carreer , money wise i handle completely for the household's expenditure , i dowan her single penny , both of us different accounts but wat i want is tat her world is similiar to me , so that we can walk together and face the probloem together.
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I would say is based on different person expectation.

If the man is understanding, he may talk in topic which is both interest, rather than living in his own world. And of course, secretary are suppose to be understand boss. Why ? cause she is paid to do so.
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post Jul 7 2008, 02:34 PM

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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Jul 7 2008, 02:33 PM)
Yes where as ur wife will get a bit personal wink.gif
Thats when problem arise

He watch too much taiwanese drama i suppose laugh.gif
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taiwanese drama got teach boss how to play secretary ? unsure.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 03:01 PM

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QUOTE(AngelOfDestruction @ Jul 7 2008, 02:36 PM)
true , topic may change , but is irrelevant to serious matters oledi .. conversation between two must be a mix of friendly , casual and serious stuff ... if one whole day u want me to talk craps i rather keep my mouth shut.
2nd, secretary understands the boss , true , but isnt the wife can do better >? i am not saying tat wife must be the secreatary laa , juz tat in the initial case , if man owns a company , why cant the wife be the second-in-command?

wow,,,, sweat.gif
got a feeling like peinsama aka osama dy... laugh.gif  jkjk laa peinsama jgn marah ya.... laugh.gif  laugh.gif
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okay, thats the point i wanted to point out. Why the man have to discuss serious matter with the wife ?

Let just say the wife is just a housewife, she know zero about business, but doesnt means she cant made her husband feel better.

As a man, I dun wish my wife face the same type of problem like me. Then I will talk to her like "honey, nowdays I face alot of stress at work."

So maybe she can console me in respons ? say like gimme a massage and say something really sweet to boost up my spirit. I dun need her to give me solution.

Consider that as a simple act, but then wouldnt it be very nice if a person can cheer me up at home ?
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post Jul 7 2008, 03:07 PM

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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Jul 7 2008, 03:03 PM)
And u certainly dont want to bring home ur stress to ur wife
if both works in the same company, go back both aso brings the stress of the work home both aso sour face
and then arguements sparks easily
and wat about the kids? laugh.gif
yes wink.gif
even if u officially go into family business just go in as any ordinary people do
that will save them alot of trouble
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that 1 i dunno, dun label me as a big man or whatever. If can I just wanna give my wife a best enviroment.
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post Jul 7 2008, 03:16 PM

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QUOTE(AngelOfDestruction @ Jul 7 2008, 03:06 PM)
finally , i found this to explain my point liao .... sweat.gif phew.... sweat.gif
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well thats 1 of the good way. laugh.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 05:06 PM

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I WANT SING SONG !!!!!!!!!!!!
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post Jul 7 2008, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(rourou @ Jul 7 2008, 05:07 PM)
sing lor laugh.gif who's stopping you?
nvm lar.. guys with balls like that probably enjoy showing them off laugh.gif
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im surround by few malay anuty if I sing Justin song now sure kena whack 1 sweat.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 05:11 PM

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QUOTE(rourou @ Jul 7 2008, 05:10 PM)
try it.. if kena whack pls let us know laugh.gif
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dun lar, my face quite leng chai today sweat.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 7 2008, 05:12 PM)
laugh.gif Sing "Belaian Jiwa" by Innuendo. Guarantee won't kena whack.
haih, should learn to appreciate what they have tongue.gif
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if i know how to sing then i sing liao lor. sweat.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 05:15 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 7 2008, 05:14 PM)
The song's not that hard to sing for someone like you tongue.gif
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i dunno the lirik mah sad.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 7 2008, 05:17 PM)
youtube it lor tongue.gif
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my co block utube cry.gif

rourou> better dun take the risk
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post Jul 8 2008, 08:49 AM

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hi all frens and fella
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post Jul 8 2008, 08:57 AM

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QUOTE(whoopa @ Jul 8 2008, 08:51 AM)
nowadays 7chai damn lansi already
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u ok mou ? i where got lansi unsure.gif

cheeann> what ffk ? unsure.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 09:09 AM

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QUOTE(cheeann @ Jul 8 2008, 09:03 AM)
u said wanna take me for a spin till now shadow also no c lo~    doh.gif  doh.gif
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yahor, i too busy edi wei. nowdays have to sleep at 10pm, wake up 5 in the morning. sweat.gif

whoopa> bila mau yum cha. That day your dream gal ah hiaoll sms me. brows.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 09:12 AM

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QUOTE(cheeann @ Jul 8 2008, 09:11 AM)
sigh~
now only remember~  cry.gif  cry.gif  cry.gif
lai lai v go TT at genting 2nite wan? ?    whistling.gif  whistling.gif
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tonite wanna go where ? i also wanna find u look at my car tyre see whether shud change or not. laugh.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 09:15 AM

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QUOTE(cheeann @ Jul 8 2008, 09:14 AM)
meet up at steven corner then have sum snacks b4 go genting for sum coffees? ?    drool.gif
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crazy, i no need sleep ar ? doh.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 09:18 AM

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QUOTE(cheeann @ Jul 8 2008, 09:16 AM)
u can sleep in my car while i drive up ma~  blush.gif  blush.gif
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i mean go home sleep lar sweat.gif

anyway, I was thinking to go kuchai lama Station 1 yum cha, that day went once kinda like the place rclxms.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 09:20 AM

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QUOTE(boxhead @ Jul 8 2008, 09:20 AM)
morning~~
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ei tonite u want yum cha ?

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