It's so weird that, girls prefer to look for guys who r older and more mature...
but opposite, guys also looks for older ladies and mature...
so what will happen to all the young guys n girls... 

My boyfriend is 3 years younger than me. We are doing very well together ^__^ Most times however alot of people think that he is actually 3 years older than me ^^;;

After 18(for both parties) age is not really an issue. It all boils down to whether or not both are on the same maturity level and are able to communicate with each other. Love knows no bounderies. So don't make age one  ^__^

Plus, my mum is also older than my dad by 3 years ^^ He spent about 4-5 years to 'kao' her before she said yes to marriage XD

This seems to look like a personal attack to me.

1. Her grammar may not be perfect, but you too made a very obvious grammar mistake in your second point.
2. After viewing yen's posts, I would say she does not seem to be living in fantasy. I think it is just a matter of opinion