Hmmm. It seems that this topic has been going around the bush without any conclusion. Some even makes this topic sparks with fire. I strongly suggest that we should have a poll for this as this is open to all gender and race.

BTW get back to the topic. I don't mind to date with someone which is younger or older than me. Since i have both experience before. My first ex is younger than me but she is whole lot mature than me. But i dont think she eats salt more than me lol. Is just that she is being surrounded by a lot of good people that teaches her and somehow form her attitude to be much mature than others of her age. I got dump LOL. But never regret cause i really feels that the fault comes from me for being childish.

But the second 1 is the totally other way round back experience for me. But definitely i learn and made changes. This time i learn a lot from those who has already been there, did it and go through it people, succesful people. I made most of the idea, planning and decision for her. You can say that i help her made dreams realised. She trusted me with all her life. I can say if i call her strip naked she will do it LOL, joking. In the end i dump her, sad. Maybe due i see no future with her. Lovers tend to see the future of getting married etc etc. But once that is gone you have no direction anymore. This start when we always argue the same thing. Nothing has improve and the problem remains. We never go to the next step of our life.

If for girl to feel that to a guy that guy is a goner. No security, assurance and confident toward that guy. SWT. BUT THE SECOND 1 IS OLDER THAN ME LOL

This is my opinion.

Cheers



This post has been edited by barrylin: Jul 7 2008, 12:40 PM

Yes we do sit down and talk about it. We have both agree to deal with it. In the end the result is still the same, we argue back. Nothing has change. I see no point being together since we are not advancing. In the end you will loose confident, trust, and faith in that person. Is just like being with her just for time to past by. Dont waste other people time and your time. There is no need to wait for a replacement then only you switch. When you give up on that person even spiderman wont come to save you. That is when you have been dissapointed for a few times.