QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Jun 12 2008, 02:45 AM)
Oh, that means you understand women.
Ask you something, do you have an anti b1tch shield? How do you know when a woman is toying with you or not?
Sorry, but the questions might seem to be somehow PuA related lol.

How much do you trust your instincts? I've been played before, I knew it, but I chose to ignore it. Lesson learnt, always trust your senses, especially if they tend to be keen and observant. A very simple way to test it is to see who controls the pace, if everything is done at her pace and none/hardly at your pace, high chance you're being played bro.
Take the lead, do what you want to do. Don't ignore her wants/needs, but don't pay too much attention to it either. If you're pleasing her without pleasing yourself, you're walking down the path of doom. It has to be mutual. Otherwise, one is simply playing the other.