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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 5:::..., The Fellowship of LDR

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foofoosasa
post Jun 30 2008, 07:10 PM

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QUOTE(eRiCCa @ Jun 30 2008, 03:34 PM)
HAHAHAHHA... just saying for fun...

but i like the excitement when you get see each other again... it's like the long awaited moment... more fun than you can see each other everyday... like... nothing's new... =P
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i rather nothing much new but can see her 1 week once a week is enough,sof course everyday see her i would much more happier.
geez..anyone here are in LDR more than 2 years?
foofoosasa
post Sep 13 2008, 12:02 PM

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hi there,
after 8 months in LDR,finally something happen to me and my girlfren
quite many misunderstand within us.
suddenly i dunno y, i try hurt her by speaking,i call her to find another guy(i tried to do this to because i dun want she hurt anymore)
..then she cried hurtfully,she said i've change...and she keep talking the diffrence between me now and ago.
she said she need our relationship rest for a while.but after heard wat she said...i dunno why i want to get back her heart. SHOULD i?
should i just let her go and dont be that selfish anymore?
imagine there, as she take ACCA course,the course is very stressful.when she sick,no body can take care of her,when she hungry nobody could help her buy something.somemore as you everyone know,KL is quite unsafe city,sometimes after night study,who r going to accompany her? when i'm around all this could be done right?she is still young 19 years old,there are many chances in futher.
yea,i just bought my flight ticket initially i want to go back to get back her heart,but should i be more cruel?

i love her..no doubt.she could find a better guy in there..no need wait me more 3 years.i m not saying ths 3 years are long...for us actually it is nothing.but she sacrifices a lot in this relationship.my presence made her suffer so much.

should i gain back her heart or just let it be?

PS:i still ONLY love her. we have 5 years in SDR,the question is can i still be that selfish?after she back from college,she stll need talk to me.. the course full of exam n test. after she so tried , still need talk to me. i couldn't do anything for her.all just by TALK, no ACTION...whenever she sick , feel feared...wat can i do? just call her and said "drink more water", " remember take ur medicine"........

i dont want ruin her life sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif

so do you all still think i should go back my girlfren there?
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post Sep 13 2008, 06:31 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Sep 13 2008, 04:56 PM)
Hey, I know man, it happens the same on me too. She said I've changed but she also changed, people change, we don't remain static always.

Sometimes I also think that she deserves a better person rather than me, but you need to understand this LDR you couldn't do many things I believe she will understand that even you talk but can't do anything. She knows.

Which relationship doesn't have its own ups and downs? You said you already bought a flight ticket, and from what you have written I can see you both still want to keep this relationship going, grab this chance go meet her and talk everything out, feelings, what you want, what you need, what she needs, etc.

I'm going to do the same for this coming October as well. smile.gif
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thx for your courage, at least i m not alone in this situation.you 're right...every relationship has down & up.
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